What is the best prayer for someone like this?

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If you tell her the truth she will hate you. Seldom takes responsibility for her actions. Surprise surprise people leave her. She seems to genuinely believe she is the victim in situations. She does not seem to understand the magnitude of her choices until she is faced with consequences. What you tell her goes in one ear and out the other. Selective hearing so once again she is the victim. She has such a hardshell defensive that she doesn’t really believe anything you tell her. She does not understand she cannot always get her way. She is very good at seducing men but never long lasting relationships. It is very sad actually she was sexually assaulted by two guys at fourteen.
 
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Go before the Blessed Sacrament and pray from your heart. Words are not necessary.
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Yep.

“In the same way the Spirit also helps our weakness; for we do not know how to pray as we should, but the Spirit Himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words” —Romans 8:26
 
She needs to want the help. Being gentle with her rather than blunt may go farther.
At any rate, we’re all flawed…be kind.
She needs you, but it may be years before she comes so see another point of view. She’ll hit rock bottom. And you will be there without being harsh.
 
Pray to her guardian angel who knows, understands and loves her. Ask her guardian angel for the right words in dealing with her.

Ask her guardian angel how you can be of help without enabling or rejecting her.

Try to imagine how her guardian angel is praying for her as well.
 
Compassion, compassion and more compassion, it is never enough.

This is someone who experienced sexual assault at 14, when I was her age, I didn’t know that girls had genital organs down there, I didn’t know what sex does look like and she had to experience that.

Her innocence was taken away from her, she is a victim, many girl with her situation went down the porn and prostitution road, she hates men in some unconscious form, making normal connection, friendships and relationships will always be hard for her and she’ll always be defensive, she does not foresee the consequences of her actions until it is too late and she is a very smart person and it is always someone else’s fault.

I am in my thirties and still experiencing that, I was not assaulted sexually, but I grew up during war and went to a Catholic school, at least by name, where physical and verbal abuse from teachers was my daily routine until 14, moving away to another one with bad company helped develop my porn addiction.

I’ll pray for her, just be there for her, she needs a friend, a supporter, a listener and may God bless her and keep her away from bad company.

Jesus have Mercy on all suffering people, I know you do love us.
 
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