Do we toss a coin? And can we truly look at just one criterion, and ignore all the others?
I think that there is a way out of this conundrum, one consistent with justice and mercy, and biological reality too. We go with the neurology. The brain, and hence the mind.
And if they accuse others of a “masquerade” but are unprepared to offer any justification for their accusation, then that is indeed bearing false witness. Saying something you know to be false, or have a reckless disregard for whether it is or not.
It would seem that Ethereality is confusing the difference between someone who’s seen as “transexual” (
people who clearly are of one gender [who want] to change to another) and those who are medically intersexed (
by definition, your gender is ambiguous). As has already been said, the church is against one as it’s seen as mutilation but has nothing to say on the other likely because it’s something that is only recently being demonstrated scientifically.
If Ethereality were to really understand the issue I doubt he’d call those who are intersexed as “masquerading”. In fact most ARE masquerading because they’ve been forced to act as something they’re not, and what they seek is to no longer have to live a farce, correct?
I agree that we should definitely come to a way of determining one’s gender when children are detected to have this condition to spare them this distress. As you’ve pointed out, Zoe in the case of David Reimer, living as something your body tells you you’re not leads to disaster.
(I hope I can make this point correctly.)
I do see a possible problem stemming from determining gender or rather something being piggy-backed on this issue which are really entirely different subjects: homosexuality.
It’s one thing to have your body be in
harmony in terms of gender identity, but it’s another to bring in “sexual preference” as something that
defines your identity. In this regard, sex is being given so much emphasis by our culture nowadays that it’s seen as something that defines the kind of person you are, and it shouldn’t be the case. There lies the problem, with people who might abuse this to justify homosexuality as being perfectly normal and acceptable when that’s not the issue being dealt with at all. (To clarify, even if one is born homosexual, I think it’s the sexual act that is wrong.)
In any case, the issue on the intersexed isn’t “religion vs. science”, but rather an issue of understanding which I hope continues developing to better help those afflicted. A matter that can affect the rest of a person’s life should definitely not be arbitrary, which is why the Church has ONLY made a declaration in regards to those who seek to be
something they’re not by mutilating their bodies.
The issue here is people who are in fact living as what they know they’re not. Keep in mind that the Church is never quick to decide on matters until it knows all it can, so please be patient. In any event, the Church never has and doesn’t condone any sort of hatred towards anyone (but many of her people don’t listen).
Zoe, while we are meant to be male and female to complement one another, those who are “ambiguous” have a purpose too (we ALL do which is why we’re here.) Not everyone is called to marriage, and even those who are married are not all called to bear their own children (there’s always adoption).
The problem seems to be that we seem think we’re entitled to have all that we want at any cost (or to not have, especially in the case of abortion). This is the essence of sin, when we say no to God and yes to our selfish whims. Of course that’s also why we’re still alive, another chance to repent from said rebellion and to be right with Him.
Sorry for the long rant, I hope this made sense and came off right (I guess I’ll know by the reactions).
@Aspalowski, I do recommend you read that link on Galileo again with a calm mind and ignoring Ethereality and this thread. We all know that things could have been handled better but the Church has already apologized for that. Do keep in mind Galileo did a lot more than merely
propose a theory (which would have been fine).