God loves me more than a father has for his daughter.
Is this an Islamic belief? What does it means for God to love more than a father has for his daughter?
Prophet(PBUH): A mother cannot throw her child into the fire, the love Allah has for us is greater than a love a mother has for its child.
How much greater is Allah’s love for us than a mother’s love for her child? I am not questioning you, I am just trying to learn some Islamic teaching in the process.
PS: I think Mothers love is greater, the pain of childbirth, carrying for 9 months,(no dad can do that) thats why in Islam we are told heaven is at our Mothers feet ie to honour them and respect them for all they have done for us.
Good. This philosophy is good to teach about being filial and to honor our parents.
So in essence in Islam Allah’s love is greater than that of a mother, whilst in Christianity God’s love is that of a fathers
God’s love is not that of a human father but we can get the idea when he use human father as an analogy. He is saying if our human father can love his child, feed him and will not harm him, then what more to say about God? If our human father who is imperfect can love his child, what more to say about God who is perfect and can love his child perfectly?
Probably, the key word here is ‘love’. What is our understanding of love? Christians’ understanding of the love of God is AGAPE. This love is unconditional and it is about giving for the good of the one he loves. This love is not about ‘I love you, if you love me’.
Mothers endure more pain 9months carrying child, body torn apart(without being to graphic) in childbirth, the rest of their life feeding you teaching you.
Good but a human philosophy nevertheless. If we look at mothers, we can admit that there are many kinds of mothers. Some are good and some are bad. And indeed they
‘throw their child into the fire’ to quote you. Not only we see abortions but also babies dumping which are quite common.
Whilst a father is just a sperm donor, has to provide food and shelter.
I would say this is a very simplistic assumption and philosophy too. I do not know much about Muslim marriage and parenting, but surely a father is more than just that. He and the wife are together in marriage and therefore have shared responsibility.
Just making a comparison.
Noted. Not in Christianity though. Marriage is more than just about sperm donor and giving physical birth to children. It is a sacred union of two souls and lives are God’s gift that both parents have the responsible to cherish and love and to bring them up as how God wants them to be.
Is having a child(9 months plus) more painful than dying on the cross? Just to note, we don’t believe he died at the cross, because God wud never do that to his Prophet(PBUH), he ascended him to heaven.
In answering that question, literally yes, I think, but I could be wrong because I am not a woman. In this concept, it is not so much about which suffering is greater but the fact that God, who can be everything and who is omnipotent, could humbled himself to become man and suffered and died on the cross. If one is God, that indeed could be really painful (from a human perspective).
Again we come back to the definition of the love of God. Why did God need to do that? In Christian’s belief it is because of his love (in order to save mankind). The love of God is about giving. ‘Nothing is greater than giving our lives for a friend’ (paraphrasing) and God did just that.