The actions of the person who contributed speak volumes. From the sound of it, this person and his spouse did not understand Catholicism, or they would never have left.
I know they feel their needs were not being met, but you do not react by leaving the Church Jesus created. How do they know God did not have a plan to make something really amazing in their lives and the lives of their children if they had stayed?
But, instead, they decided to usurp their destiny. This is how evangelicals operate. It is all about what they want and when they want it, how they want it. They tell their church what they want.
It is like 2 Timothy chapter 4, verses 3 and 4, in which Paul warns of people who will not listen to sound doctrine, and because of āinsatiable curiosityā will basically hire teachers who will tell them what they want to hear, and then they believe falsehoods.
Evangelicals can start programs they hope will help others, but how successful are these programs? Promise Keepers, for example.
When you place your faith in programs, lectures by charismatic, handsome preachers, talking vegetables, you are not placing your faith in God.