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DelsonJacobs
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Glad to be of help.Delson as always your insights are much appreciated and it is easy to perceive that you are well read and informed on scripture and history. One problem I have always come across with the witnesses is that this is not always so in fact I have found the opposite and incredibly they are completely satisfied to let the Watch Tower have the last say on nearly every subject.
Once when dialoguing with some of my sister in laws co JW’s the old chestnut of the Catholic Church resulting from Constantine, the great apostasy and pagan influence was asserted as fact and completely accepted unchallengeable history. In my usual way instead of launching into an energetic refutation of this assertion I plumbed for some deeper knowledge such as the main issues under discussion at the council of Nicea? some background leading up to Constantine being on the throne in the first place? The State of the Roman Empire under Diocleation? The relationship between Rome the Western Church and Alexandria and the Eastern Church? etc. All of this just drew blanks? when I then asked how one could possibly form an opinion on the subject without all of the facts I was ignored! When I then pushed a bit further and made the observation that as ministers and teachers of the Watch Tower religion surly it is encumbered upon them to at least have an understanding of what they are teaching? I was avoided and treated like I was obviously possessed by the devil and his demons.
Fascinating!!! It came across to me like the in crowd back in the days of my adolescence “We have a secret, superior knowledge that you obviously cant see due to your blindness”. My searching for facts and truth was answered with reply’s such as I was blocked or blinded by satan. If only I would just be open to the “Truth” somehow this would all make sense?
Exasperating is an understatement.
One of the things you can do when you realize you are being used as “bankable hours” by a Witness and won’t stand for it anymore is to cut them off.
They are so used to feeling like they are in control, and even enjoy being the ones who say when it’s over, that you will really shock them when you tell them they their visits are not needed anymore.
If this is what you or anyone reading this intend, do so without giving them any explanation. Send them off by thanking them for their time and efforts. Tell them how they have made you are stronger Catholic. Then bless them with the sign of the cross. And that’s it.
If they want to talk more tell them “not necessary” or that you “can’t now, being carried away in the Spirit” as you walk off or close the door or whatever you need to do to physically end it. (Even if it is with someone you may see daily, like at a job, there are ways to make it clear that their using you as a “return visit” has now ended.)
Some of my JW friends would not leave when told. If this happens, what can you do then?Never underestimate the use of the sign of the cross or a crucifix. Jehovah’s Witnesses are literally frightened by sacramentals of all kinds. If they insist on sticking around, let them know they are only welcome if you bless each meeting with a sacramental. Sprinkle holy water upon them. take a crucifix and confront them with it, light a vigil candle with a saint’s picture on it. Even take out your Rosary and block everything else out as you pray a decade in front of them.
Of course we want people to truly be blest by the use of such holy objects and not necessarily make them flee. But it was once my responsibility to correct many a JW who would not take no for an answer, so I know that once in a while they can even be almost mean about it.
However I’ve also seen how many will react like a vampire and some have even run away screaming when Catholics attempted to bless them with these crucifixes and holy water. I myself was so frightened of those things when I was still a JW. I would have screamed like a little girl if someone ever tried to put holy water on me back then. Left alone they were nothing, but in the hands of a practicing Catholic and being used–even a mere Rosary was a frightening thing to me back then! So if you must, you must!
Garlic has little effect, however.