Wonderful responses from many on this topic. Looks like we have more than a few people who read the Adoremus Bulletin.
Because the choir is such a visible ministry, it does tend to attract both the devout and the egoist (and sometimes those who are both, more’s the pity).
I’m in the rural New England area, and the musicianship in our area (100 mile radius) is overwhelmingly a crime. Untaught, off-key, loud “cantors”, raucous guitar “bands” or would-be folk guitarists who “adapt” the music lyrics AND tunes, flamboyant “keyboardists” with “back-up” groups. Few choirs even schedule practices. Most singers bellow the music in their own key, tempo, and at full volume–no enunciation, no shading or nuance, not even a crescendo-decrescendo. Any “Latin” or “traditional” music is given, if at all, grudgingly or “adapted” to today’s “taste”. The same thumping, poorly worded, “inclusive” and politically correct “tunes” are given week after week.
God help us.
Yes, I KNOW that many of these people are kind-hearted and genuinely wish to be helpful. But just because most people can read words doesn’t mean that they can SING. Just because somebody can play an instrument doesn’t mean that they can accompany or lead. I feel that too many people “sing” in the choir because they feel that, since they are worshipping God, it doesn’t MATTER how they sound, but only that they are THERE.
I truly don’t want to be uncharitable, but this issue is a real trial for me.
I’m walking a tightrope. I cannot sing in my church choir because there is no director, the keyboardist does nothing but solo instrumentals or has the few members singing nothing but a bare melody while he improvises away a la Barry Manilow, and the members themselves never practice or sing “together”. I can’t get THEM to change. I’m not the only sufferer–the majority of the parishoners DESPISE the singing, the music, and the whole attitude of the “choir”, but nobody wants to say anything about it for fear of looking “superior”, “intolerant”, or “judgmental”. So the abuse just keeps on coming.
So I’m trusting in God to guide me on this. In the meantime, if anybody has any advice for this situation, I’d be eternally grateful.