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Now now, let’s not turn this into a “rah rah” thread, praising our Lord! That’s off topic…
Shouldn’t be. Isn’t that the reason to go to Church whether you are Protestant or Catholic?Now now, let’s not turn this into a “rah rah” thread, praising our Lord! That’s off topic…
Great question. I think it comes down to not truly believing in the Eucharist and/or confessing to a priest - believes in confessing directly to God. I think it is the message of the homily goes in one ear and out the other - aka hard to resonate with. As a Catholic, I have to say I had taken the mass for granted when I was younger - praying during mass, but not really paying attention. I think the information from the sermons sink in and that she’s able to live them out in her daily life.Hey, OP. What I’m confused about is your wife’s views on Catholicism. She has a healthy one, thank God for you and her; but doesn’t make the leap. What blocks her?
What about something for both of you? Surely your parish has a study group, coffee and donuts, volunteer opportunities?Yes, I am involved in a Saturday morning’s men group
One thing we took together was the class Fulfilled. She really liked that class.What about something for both of you? Surely your parish has a study group, coffee and donuts, volunteer opportunities?
Then I would suggest on Formed doing Symbalon!Fulfilled
I’ll check in on that.Then I would suggest on Formed doing Symbalon!
And distraction. That’s probably been my greatest sin: being distracted from praying to God every single day. Giving Him my priority since he poured out His life into me.
Prayer Is An Act Of Love
Prayer is an act of love; words are not needed. Even if sickness distracts from thoughts, all that is needed is the will to love.
St. Teresa of Avila
What do you want, new sins to confess?And worse of all, committing the same sins over and over again
You are feeling the effects of concupiscence. That is part and parcel of the human condition. That is why we have the Sacraments. They are not to be locked in a drawer, or otherwise forgotten. They are meant to be used.It feels like I’ve disobeyed my Father and continue to disobey him. I am a persumptious person, afraid of being legalistic, afraid to judge the sinner rather than the sin.
Have you ever been an Evangelical Protestant?A circle of friends, social clubs and fraternal organizations are for those who desire human contact and shared activities.
A good Church is that which was founded by our Lord Jesus Christ and Who remains with us, in the Holy Eucharist, until the end of the age.
Best to keep it simple. The evil one loves complication.
No, but I have attended an evangelical Christian non-denominational church for nearly 6 years. Protestant churches in general go out of their way to make people feel welcomed and not just newcomers. This encourages people to live out their faith during the week.Have you ever been an Evangelical Protestant?
Nothing says you cannot go to a Protestant Church; the only dictate is that you don’t forego your Sunday mass obligation. I love my Catholic faith, but I am thankful I can also attend and also serve at the Protestant Church. And I am thrilled to pray for both my Catholic and Protestant brothers and sisters.My husband and I, and our daughter, love being Catholic. We are so grateful that God led us to His Church.
But we are LONELY. So lonely for Christian fellowship the way we grew up.
We’re starting That Man is You at our parish. I do go to Church for God not for man, but I can so relate to the loneliness and not being able to make friends despite being heavily involved in my Church. It’s definitely helpful to have a daily prayer life and Bible focus if you have people walking with you.After all, Christianity is not just receiving Jesus. Acts 2: 42 says, “They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers.”
There are two regular posters here, you and a man who is married to a Catholic, and it breaks my heart that each of you are in such parishes.but we never ask anyone if they would like to go out for nachos or pizza or fruit salad, and no one ever asks us. Why don’t Catholics do this kind of thing?
Thank you so much for your loving concern. You are very kind.There are two regular posters here, you and a man who is married to a Catholic, and it breaks my heart that each of you are in such parishes.
We’ve thought about proposing a “Find Friends” Club to him. He’s a super pastor with a lot of energy tempered with great love for his congregation and of course, for the Lord Jesus and the Blessed Mother.Have you sat down and talked with your pastor about the lack of fellowship opportunities?