MCOLE:
Oh, my goodness… I think we are all getting a bit carried away. I WILL not have the “opportunity” to watch Showtime’s “Our Fathers” because I don’t subscribe to the stations that include such trash… I DO have satellite television, but we mostly watch EWTN and local channels.
How can you call programming you have never watched Trash? I don’t understand how people such as yourself can have such an opinion when you have never PERSONALLY experienced the programming.
MCOLE:
Most people reporting on the “Catholic” Priest discrepencies are non-Catholic. Please keep that in mind. Do your research on all the “faiths” who have had unChristian-like problems before you point the finger at our FAITH.
I am Catholic and I can support the accusations. Also other faiths DO NOT FOLLOW THE CHRISTIAN faith so saying they have had un-Christian-like problems is irrelevant, they have their own problems. Except in other faiths there is no cover up for pedophiles and there is no RAPING OF YOUNG CHILDREN.
My anger is not for the Church as an institution. My anger is for the supporters of clergy such as Cardinal Law and others in his position who were well aware what was going on for decades in the parishes. And here are all of you defending the church who is harboring these CRIMINALS. Because they serve the Church we should feel some sympathy or compassion. We should definitely have sympathy and compassion for the victims, not the abusers and their superiors. They were the one’s who had the power to CHANGE something. Instead they took advantage of power and used it to silence the issue.
You tell me how supportive you will be of the church when you find out your young boy or girl was inappropriately touched by a clergy member as a child. Most children don’t come forth till they are married with children of their own. We must ask why is this?
Well it is not until they have a family of their own until they realize the full affect it has had on them. Why are many victims of molestation no longer proud of their Catholic faith? Why do many NEVER let their children see the inside of a church? My child will not be baptised. I don’t feel welcom in my own church where I grew up. Am I any Un-Catholic than you are? When a trusted member voids that trust and then on top of it, gets defended by the church, victims need seem to have a problem putting that trust back into the church as an institution.
Learn and understand where the issue stands and you will see the actions of the clergy members of the church institution has led to the mistrust of the actual institution. Victims went to the institution for advice and to bring this problem forward. It was the institutions choice to liquidate insurance policies, sell off church belongings, and to ensue silencing if the victims with Gag orders. What that states is simply: talk about you past molestation and we will sue you, the victim, back for the money won plus damages. How is this helping? This is just hurting. And the institution must have known insurance policy liquidations were taking place. So they are as guilty. The Pope did nothing. In fact Cardinal Law recieved a PROMOTION to the Vatican after this became news headlines and was one of the few members of the Church who was at Pope John Paul’s death bed. How is that a punishment? He was viewed by the Pope as a trusted Cardinal to be one of his right hand men.
Unfortunately, until this gets handled as CRIMES by the church, this will never go away. Pedophiles are finding a safe haven in our churches because they know no matter what, the church will defend them. This is the true crime.
