I’ve wondered often why, even though our church has a great school and choir program, the kids don’t sing out more during Mass?
It occurred to me that perhaps the parents or grandparents give them the message, either overtly or covertly, that there is something “improper” about singing out with a full voice during Mass. Is this possible? Or am I judging incorrectly?
Even if the parent doesn’t come right out and tell the kids to “hush up,” is it possible that the parent is conveying the message to the child that they shouldn’t sing?
I see so many people that don’t even open the hymnal during Mass. If a child sees this, won’t they get the idea that “since Mommy and Daddy don’t sing, I shouldn’t sing either?”
Last Sunday, I attended a morning mass, and I heard a delightful child’s voice singing at full strength throughout the entire Mass. Every response, every hymn, even the prayers–I heard that nice, enthusiastic voice, and I could understand every word.
It wasn’t always in tune, but it was certainly not monotone, either. It was a typical child’s voice, singing with joy and abandon.
I couldn’t see who it was, but I assumed it was probably one of the choir kids, probably a boy. (I play piano for the church-school choir.)
During the last hymn, as most of the people left before the hymn was finished, I could finally see who it was.
It was a girl, probably about 12, who had Down’s Syndrome.
She was reading the hymnal, holding the hymnal right up to her eyes so she could see better, and just blasting away at the closing hymn. It was beautiful! Very uplifting.
I met her in the lobby and told her how nice she sounded, and her mother and I talked for a few minutes. The mother said that her daughter just loved to sing. I told her I wish everyone sang so enthusiastically during Mass!
Certainly that mother wasn’t hushing up her child, thank goodness. I hope that other parents with singing kids encourage them when they sing out, even if people turn around to see who the Pavrotti or the Fleming behind them is!