When I was growing up (in the 1930’s) the Mass was called “the Mass”; it was not called the TLM.
I know that some people like to think of going to Mass pre-V2 and hearing the Gregorian Chant and all this reverence and mystery. It has almost become a fantasy.
I remember no Gregorian Chants, the reverence was no more than it is now at a properly celebrated Pauline Mass. If you watch the Daily Mass on EWTN you will see what I mean. That is a Pauline Mass and it is so beautiful and reverent with beautiful music.
But churches in my youth had bad choirs and good choirs, exactly like today. And, some Priests rushed through the Mass just to get it over, exactly as some Priests do to this day.
The Priest faced away from the people and said the prayers in Latin but we followed in our Missal and I’ll bet, 90% of the people read the prayers in English.
Women did wear head coverings and I always have, and still do.
And we did receive Holy Communion from the hands of a Priest while kneeling at an altar rail. But there is a church just around the block from my parish church that still does it that way. They have one TLM Mass on Sunday but the rest of the time the Pauline Mass is celebrated. But Holy Communion is always received at the altar rail while kneeling.
I have not noticed if anyone receives in the hand, though I would think most people receive on the tongue. I can’t even imagine taking the Host in my hand.
Altar servers were always male, generally young boys, and I wish they still were all male.
I make it a point when attending Mass to sit on the side of the church where I know the Priest distributes Holy Communion. I do not want to receive the Holy Eucarist from the hands of a lay person (male or female).
So, I think of myself as a "traditional Catholic who does not object to the Pauline Mass. Have you seen a Mass celebrated by Pope Benedict. It is still the Pauline Mass but it is beautiful (of course they have the benefit of an excellent choir).
I suffered no great trauma when the Mass changed and the Priest turned around and I don’t understand why some people did.
That is how it was (at least it was my experience).
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