I was in high school in Massachusetts at the time and had been going to daily mass whenever possible for several years. I kind of liked the transition to English and was awed at being able to see what was going on at the altar. I just figured if the pope said the change was OK I should go along with it, no big deal. The Catholic church never asked our opinions prior to this, so why now? Whether I agreed wasn’t relevant. It was still the mass.
Our church building didn’t change except that eventually a free-standing altar was placed in front of the main altar at the foot of the steps and the gates in the center of the altar rail were removed. The tabernacle stayed where it used to be. Best of all, the doors to the church were never locked! That came much later.
I remember my father being upset that the mass wasn’t in Latin because he said it was supposed to be the same all over the world. To me, using a French/English missal was about the same as using a Latin/English missal so going to mass in a foreign language when traveling didn’t bother me. It was still the mass. One good effect was that the 20-minute muttered Latin daily mass gave way to one where the priest took the time to pronounce the words so they could be understood. Not that most priests had done that but some, well, you wondered what they were really praying (and what the altar boys sometimes got away with).
Our priests kept on wearing clerical garb, the sisters at school slightly modified their habit to a simpler headdress. I think women were relieved that, if we didn’t have a hat or mantilla with us, we were spared having to bobby-pin a kleenex or mitten to our head. No one forced us to stop wearing hats but fashions changed and they somewhat went out of style.
I honestly don’t think the change in the mass caused all the problems that are blamed on it. I think it was everything else going on in society that was the real cause.
Things I remember about that time were the sexual revolution, Woodstock, the availability of the ‘pill’ and, later, Catholic resistance to Humanae Vitae, aggressive feminism, mini skirts, a new casualness in dress, men stopped wearing hats (the influence of Jack Kennedy?), more than one TV in a house, bra ads on TV, the fight for integration, the Peace Corps, the Kennedy and King assassinations, Vietnam, the draft, and much more.