Hubby and I took a very meaningful trip back in 2014, where we traveled down to southern California and revisited all of our old haunts there, that still exist.
Since I was born and grew up in the San Diego, Bonita, Otay, South Bay areas, I was able to revisit my old elementary school, Ella B. Allen, which I had attended through the fourth grade. The security is a lot tighter today – we had to show IDs before they would let us onto the campus. But once there, I found it’s outward appearance and the location of things had not changed that much. They’ve added a central garden, which the kids and staff take care of, which I found to be lovely. They still have flowering vines entwined around the eaves and posts which line the corridors between the classrooms, just as they had when i was there as a kid.
It was a wonderful trip, in the middle of April, and very hot.
We stayed at my brother’s home in San Marcos, and I’m glad we went when we did. The following Spring, in 2015, the wildfires raged through north San Diego county, and my brother almost lost his home. And, all because a troubled, 17-year-old girl was playing with matches in her back yard during the severe drought, and the wind carried an ember into the dried brush, which was like a tinder box that immediately went up in flames.
I was also able to revisit our grandparents’ old house in Chula Vista. And I was delighted when I found that the current resident is the same lady whose husband had purchased the house directly from our grandpa, and she still recognized his surname. She gracious allowed us inside to see what it now looks like (I had promised we wouldn’t touch anything or take pictures indoors). While the house has been modernized, the layout is still the same as it was all those years ago, and even the outside looks the same. She had the stucco repainted, but matched the original green color as closely as she could. I couldn’t tell the difference.
I also got to revisit the land on which our family lima bean ranch had been located, but where Southwestern College now stands. I recognized some of the original soil in the dirted areas.
Hubby and I revisited our old apartment in Oceanside, where we had lived from 1983 through June of 1995. We had our residence upstairs, and hubby had his business in one of the two suites downstairs.
He also visited his very first apartment that he lived in after being discharged from the Marine Corp. That was in Fallbrook.
All of that area is much more crowded today, and much more built up. Wall-to-wall people, even on the beaches.
In 2019, we took another trip to California, to Oroville, where I visited the grave of my (and my siblings’) biological grandfather and gifted him with a poem and a lovely, multi-colored bouquet of roses. He is buried, along with his second wife, in the veterans section, having served in the Navy in the early 1920s.
Both trips were beautiful, and we took lots of pictures to commemorate and preserve those experiences.