I’m 28 so I obviously didn’t go through the changes. However, as I’ve said before, I attend the Latin Mass and have done so since I was 11. None of my family attend the TLM, my grandmother attended the NO but the rest of my family now only go for Feast days and occassional events.
From what I gathered from my grandmother, the changeover was pretty violent in this diocese. The Irish bishops were pretty conservative at the time of the Council and ours basically ignored it until 1970. The first thing that changed was the use of Irish Gaelic in hymns. Before the council, Irish wasn’t really used in liturgical hymns and most people only knew Latin hymns. The priest told the choir, which my grandmother was the director, that they could now use the religious songs people sang as part of their home devotions in church. That was very welcome and was warmly recieved. In english speaking parishes they got the English Mass but in Irish parishes, they stuck to a hybrid Latin Mass for a time and it mostly went on as it always had.
In the early 70s the Irish translation of the Mass was introduced. The thing was that it was written by clerics who had learned Irish but weren’t native speakers. To the people in the pews it was really clumsy stuff that sounded very peculiar. The Gaelic antiphonary was also introduced and people were not happy with it for the same reason. My grandmother told the story of how one of the hymns had a typo that caused a lot of confusion; the hymn talked about Our Lord curing the blind. In Irish, the word for blind is “dall” but the book said “gall” which means foreigner or viking. The people thought that Our Lord had been going around curing the vikings but no one said anything because things were changing so quickly and thouroughly that people just thought this was another change to accept.
When the altars were demolished, the people took particular offence at that. Likewise, they weren’t happy in my parish because the priest took away all the statues save for one of Our Lord and the people were not happy about loosing their saints. The thing was, my grandmother said, everything was changing so fast and it was hard to keep up with it, but the world was changing so fast and the Church demanded these things so people obeyed unquestioningly, as they had always done. The mass in the vernacular was largely welcomed eventually, and people were particularly happy about the priest facing the people but there was so much craziness going on that confused and bewildered a lot of people. The loss of Benediction, the processions and other ceremonies were hard on people but they obeyed because thats what you did. The Church was always right, always.
I have to say, going to the TLM is a joy for me and I now find it very hard to attend the NO.