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FabiusMaximus
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You see this is exactly the problem with the Catholic (and to a lesser extend, Orthodox) mentality.I tend to take an “either - or” view.
Either you are a Catholic or you aren’t.
The Protestant world is huge and has lots of different branches. You can be a high-church protestant or a low church protestant and still agree that the Pope isn’t the leader of your church, that scripture only will save you and that infant baptism is bunk. Just because your protestant church has more in common w/Catholics than the “low-church” folks doesn’t make you Catholic.
Coming into the RCC from a Low-church background, I still have a hard time with mass because it is fundamentally different than what is offered as worship in low-church settings.
Individual Catholics may disagree with what is taught on the social stuff, but Church leadership is clear on what the proper position to take on any issue is. That opinion doesn’t change whether you go to the “Liberal” or “Conservative” parish.
My standard is whether you can take communion in the RCC or you can’t. If you can’t, then either you are an unbeliever (can be in various ways) or a protestant Christian. Either way, you aren’t in alignment with the RCC and its beliefs.
I was deeply offended that, as a protestant Christian, I couldn’t take communion in an RCC. However, after learning and growing in the Catholic faith and becoming a Catholic, I understand why there’s that standard.
I am more offended these days that my RCIA director is okay with non-Catholics taking communion because my husband made it quite clear when we were dating that non-Catholics weren’t supposed to participate because we (as protestants) don’t believe in the Real Presence of Christ in the Eucharist. I’ve since learned that there are a few exceptions, but still, for the most part, either you are in-line with teachings of Catholicism or you aren’t.
There is room to question w/in both traditions. Still, I don’t consider my Catholic doubting friends, protestants just because they have doubts. There has to be clear rejection of what the RCC teaches on other things besides the social stuff. It’s a given that most people in America have problems with the church’s stance on the social stuff.
You take an either-or approach, but then forget to realize that some of your “opponents” are in fact much closer to you theologically than they are to their “allies.”