Well, I am truly sorry if I was offending anyone. What I MEANT was that:
*If, as Catholic Christians, we get to the point where we judge or condescend to others that do not attend or prefer the same Mass as us and we feel superior to them, we have lost the entire point of worship and the Christian life. (And, yes, I know this runs both ways!) We have then become all about rules and proper posture and arrogance and pride can creep into our souls and we have become like the Pharisees.
I totally accept the ancient rites and if that is what someone prefers, then so be it!
That’s all I wanted to know…is it a preference over the NO for whatever reason or is the TLM form more theologically sound than the NO? I’ve experienced Catholics claiming this very thing as if the NO may or may not even be valid. Even this very thread has produced answers that stem from one spectrum to the other. Someone even claimed that going to NO is choosing one theology over another although I’m not sure what was even meant by that

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So, yes, maybe I am bring a little of Protestantism with me into the Catholic Church and I don’t necessarily believe that is a bad thing. I’ve heard many other converts say the same thing. I don’t want to get so bogged down in the details of certain things that, in the end, don’t amount to a hill of beans, that I lose sight of Christ. I’m coming to the Catholic Church because I believe His fullness is there. I’m not coming for a set of arbitrary rules, which is what most Protestants do stereotype the Catholic Church to be. Sadly, many get that impressions from Catholics themselves.