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ethelzguy
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I think that perhaps the word “abuse” is greatly over-used and exaggerated. The terms “accept” and “tolerate” seem to be used interchangably as well.Do YOU find a Mass with abuses acceptable?
Liturgical abuses shouldn’t be considered acceptable by anyone, so why are you getting angry because he said that he doesn’t find them acceptable?
Driving 57 in a 55 is technically speeding. But is it something to get shook up about? Doing 74 in a 55 is a different story.
I have noted several threads, in which claims were made that 8, 10, 12, however-many parishes in a given city or area were “unacceptable” places to attend Mass, due to “abuses”.
What are we calling “abuse”? Is a minor deviation “abuse”?
If I tolerate something, does that mean I accept it? I tolerate a lot of things in life. That doesn’t mean I accept or embrace it.
Are we talking about a priest who gathers the congregation around the altar in a circle? Or, are we talking about a priest who says “sisters and brothers”?
We should not be forced to accept blatant abuses, but from what I can gather here, the slightest deviance is blasted as “abuse”.
Fine. Get rid of any and all priests that deviate in the least. Good luck finding a Mass next Sunday.
Case in point. Last weekend, we had a visiting priest, as our pastor is in Honduras on a mission trip with the LifeTeen group.
The visiting priest obviously had a “thing” for saints.
As he opened Mass, we wandered off on a tangent on the saints’ feasts of the past and coming week. During the EP, he added the names of the same saints, and our patron Saint Patrick, to the prayer.
Deviance? Yes. Off the wall? Maybe. Abuse? Some would call it that, I’m sure…I wouldn’t. Did I like it? Not particularly. Did I tolerate it? Yes. Is it worth making an issue over? Nah.
I’m thankful that we HAD a priest to say Mass this weekend. I’m thankful that we still have priests who actually care about saints’ feast days.
This priest was REALLY “into” the Mass emotionally. He wasn’t just going thru the motions, like some do. So, I took his lesson on saints in stride.