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My point was right after your comment. Do you think Jerome was intelligent enough to translate the New Testament into Latin and yet missed the fact that the New Testament contained verse that showed that Jesus had brothers and Mary had sons? The passages which are often cited as proof for Jesus having brothers, are fairly obvious. How is it that Jerome would be so careless in his defense of Mary’s Perpetual Divinity? (I don’t expect you to be able to answer this question without a doubt, but any hypothesis you might have would be insightful.)
- There was a few posts that quoted Tertullian and Jerome. Tertullian as saying that Mary had kids, or was not a Perpetual Virgin; Jerome supporting that Mary was Perpetual Virgin. Well, I think everyone can agree that Jerome was a pretty smart guy, right? There’s a lot of smart guys that don’t belief in God. What’s you point in light of this fact? And we know that Jerome and Pope Damascus worked together compiling the New Testament. Are we to believe then that Jerome was not aware of all this “evidence” that was being included which goes against Mary’s Perpetual Virginity? Especially those controversial passages which refer to the brother’s of Jesus?
I am looking for my source, I remember reading at least the name of a son of Peter’s. Let me keep looking.
- Speaking of Jesus’ siblings. IF He had any, wouldn’t it seem likely that they had kids, who had kids, etc. Lineage is very important to the Jewish people, yet I have never heard of any claims. Surely some of the Apostles or Early Church Fathers would have known of this. Was it all a big cover up, possible led by the Apostle John whom became Mary’s son at the foot of the cross? Peter had a wife; I suppose we could conclude he had children; do we know of his lineage?
Also, think about Mary (and maybe any ladies out there can back up my claims). Mary was a young girl, suddenly this Angel appears and tells her what is going to happen. Now almost everyone believes that Mary really was a virgin (I do, until Jesus was born just as Matt 1:25 says) and that Jesus was conceived of the Holy Spirit (I believe this too) and not by Joseph. Imagine giving birth to the Son of God. (I can’t)
- I am not a woman, but I was there when my first (second and third as well) child was born. It blew my mind, to say the least. Now I can imagine being Joseph. An Angel has appeared to me, explaining that Mary is going to conceive a son by the power of the Holy Spirit, his name will be Jesus, and he will save people from their sins. Now we can only speculate how much of this Joseph understood. Was this the Messiah foretold by God, or was this some other miracle of God. Either way, if I were Joseph (whom supposedly was already married and had kids), the last thing I would thinking about would be having intercourse with Mary.
Do you have any kids of your own? I am sorry that you can not imagine this, as being able to put yourself in someone’s shoes is sometimes critical to understanding why a person acts a certain way or does something (like not having sex).
Imagine raising him as your kid. You would constantly be reminded of the time that the Angel of the Lord appeared to you. Sexual relations with Joseph had to be the last thing on her mind. (Are you a mind reader?) I am sure that if Joseph wanted to consummate the marriage, she would have, but as I stated above, I think this was also the farthest thing from Josephs mind. (again, are you a mind reader?)
Not a mind reader and even if I could Joseph is dead, so it would be absurd to think I could read his mind. But what I can do is imagine (or pretend) that I was in his place at that time and think about what I would have done. While this is not definitive proof (I hope my thoughts do not come off that way), it at least provides a reason. Most people want to just say that Mary and Joseph must have had sex, as they were married. I am sure it was a little more complicated than that.
Clearly this is all my opinion, but it is at least plausible. I know we live in a sex-filled world today, so it might be hard to fathom how two people could be married and not have sex, but if you knew what Mary and Joseph knew, would you have acted differently? (If sex within marriage is sinful, I guess I’d see things your way. In fact Paul may go as far as saying that not having sex with your spouse is sin – 1 Corinthians 7:1ff)
I never said sex within marriage is sinful. Paul does talk about abstaining for a period (this also helps to support the Catholic teaching on NFP). Under normal conditions, Paul is correct. But seriously, would you have intercourse with someone who carried the Lord in their womb and gave birth to them. Common sense is all it takes to end this discussion of Mary’s Perpetual Virginity once and for all.