What's with all the anti women threads recently??

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Christ submitted to his Church to the point of death, even death on a cross. I don’t know how much more submissive you can get.

The point that men are generally predisposed to leadership and women generally predisposed to following and falling for strong leaders is well-documented. As I’ve said in threads past, it’s SCIENCE!
But these general observations have more to do with disposition rather than who has moral authority or the “last say” in a household when it comes to decision-making, discipline, etc. That is up to individual married couples. They are the ones to determine how best their personalities mesh and how they can best serve God and one another. The Church is silent on the matter except to demand that husbands and wives give their entire selves to one another. I really don’t see how people can get those wires crossed and yet they do.
Let’s be honest here.
If women really are natural followers and men are natural leaders then men are actually better than women.
Now I don’t believe that, but its the logical train of thought.
Moreover, I think that its what many (if not most) of the men promoting the idea that women are (and should be) naturally submissive towards men believe in their heart of hearts.
 
I must I say, am always fascinated when a Catholic refers to themselves as a Feminist.
There are non atheist based pro woman groups that **far **more represent the Christian context rather than the those termed as ‘Feminist’ by todays’ standards, I should think.

It is hard for me to* not* associate* A*bortion and Planned Parenthood with the likes of today’s such ‘Feminist’ Icons as Margaret Sanger, Sebellius and Pelosi. And yes I say ‘Feminism’ as defined by Modern Day Feminists, is, fundamentally entwined with Atheism just as it is fundamentally entwined with Planned Parenthood. I personally equate Atheism with Planned Parenthood. How can one not? It is certainly not a Christian ideal, now is it?

I do realize that perhaps many may take umbrage with what I just said. Many will say such things like " I just admire the ‘equal pay for equal work’ aspects of feminism, that is why I call myself a Feminist.

Interesting it is, how Feminism can be such an amorphous entity isn’t it? A flex elect philosophical system that adapts itself to any crowd with whom one may be speaking.:cool:

I should think that a Catholic would rather want to say " I am a member of the "Holy Family"model of feminity that advocates for the sanctity and grace and equality of women as per the teachings of Christ. Or at least some similar descriptor. A descriptor that, renders glory to Our Lord, as opposed to …Gloria Stienem.:rolleyes:

And of course there is the term Feminism itself, as I have posted elsewhere, that by it’s very definition is exclusionary in regard to it’s very title. At no juncture in the term Feminsim, do I see the male being advocated for as well. Ergo methinks that Feminism as defined today, is just another self interest serving lobbying group that says me, me me. If not so, then why not, instead of Feminist, be called We-ist or Us - ist?

Why would any Catholic wish to be even remotely connected to such a, well, shall we say dubious, at best, organization**:confused:**

I do understand however, why Atheists call themselves Feminists.
The “Catholic Feminism” may not necessarily be (overtly) atheistic, but it does indeed derive from principles that presume necessary skepticism re: absolutes, the supernatural, the Good, etc. I think the feminism of many Christians is probably more tied to an implicitly assumed egalitarianism that they likely picked up through the culture at large. Their main concerns seem to be in promoting “freedom,” which, according to liberal theory, is not defined as the ability to do good, but instead as mere autonomy. So the goal becomes simply to maximize the total amount of choice for individuals with different-but-equal values (which, for women who believe all male dominance is oppression, amounts to female-centered egalitarianism, or “feminism”). Egalitarian liberalism is in part an attempt to achieve neutrality through tolerant non-judgment. It ends up reducing goodness to preference, or the “freedom” to maximize the pursuit of one’s hyper-individualized preferences in a fundamentally atomistic society. (I’m summing up complex theories and history pretty briefly here, so please permit the simplifications I’ve made in this short post.)

A lot of Catholics find feminism harmless due to the fact its costs are hidden. But make no mistake – we pay for all forms of feminism in one way or another. Nothing is free. The cost is a gradual loss of civilization (after demographic winter), and the currency is artificial contraception and abortion. (Men will then try to recover their losses through other means, including pornography and avoidance of marriage – see: Japan.) Feminism simply would not be feasible if women were in large, fruitful, truly Catholic families, and the majority of them would be if they couldn’t sinfully satisfy their sexual urges “without any [explicit] consequences”. One could argue that feminism is effectively an attempt to shift the costs of women’s bad “choices” onto children, men, or the State.

Thus we sacrifice human souls so that we can sustain the “liberation” of women from the terrible life of having many children while their husbands work hard to support them.

And we think human sacrifice is a thing of the past. . . as the abortion death toll approaches one billion worldwide.
 
Let’s be honest here.
If women really are natural followers and men are natural leaders then men are actually better than women.
Now I don’t believe that, but its the logical train of thought.
Moreover, I think that its what many (if not most) of the men promoting the idea that women are (and should be) naturally submissive towards men believe in their heart of hearts.
Just because someone is not a natural leader, does not make him or her less than another. We can’t all lead and we can’t all follow.

By the way, I am a natural leader.
 
Joel Osteen discussed this issue in his opening story last week.

The story went something like this:

St. Peter asked the men in the afterlife to form two lines. One line was for men that were the head of their household. The other line was for men who came from families where the woman was the head of the household.

The “woman was the head” line of men went on as far as the eye could see.

The “man was the head” line had only one man in it.

St. Peter asked the man to explain to the other men how he ran his house.

The man said: “I don’t know. My wife told me to stand here.”
Figures.
 
I must I say, am always fascinated when a Catholic refers to themselves as a Feminist.
There are non atheist based pro woman groups that **far **more represent the Christian context rather than the those termed as ‘Feminist’ by todays’ standards, I should think.
I must I say, am always fascinated when a Catholic refers to themselves as a man.
There are non abuse-based categorizations that far more represent the *Christian context *rather than those termed as ‘men’ by today’s standards, I should think.

(You DO realize, don’t you, that the original feminists who claimed the label were Christian and pro-life? If you need to resort to intellectual dishonesty to win the argument, you haven’t won the argument at all.)
It is hard for me to* not* associate* A*bortion and Planned Parenthood with the likes of today’s such ‘Feminist’ Icons as Margaret Sanger, Sebellius and Pelosi. And yes I say ‘Feminism’ as defined by Modern Day Feminists, is, fundamentally entwined with Atheism just as it is fundamentally entwined with Planned Parenthood. I personally equate Atheism with Planned Parenthood. How can one not? It is certainly not a Christian ideal, now is it?
It is hard for me to not associate abuse and serial infidelity with the likes of modern men, who create the need for feminism to secure the defense of women. And yes I say ‘men’ as defined by Modern Day Masculinity, is, fundamentally, entwined with abuse and serial infidelity just as it is fundamentally entwined with a “Might makes right, women must submit” family management philosophy. I personally equate abuse with Masculinity. How can one not? It is certainly not a Christian ideal, now is it?
I do realize that perhaps many may take umbrage with what I just said. Many will say such things like " I just admire the ‘equal pay for equal work’ aspects of feminism, that is why I call myself a Feminist.

Interesting it is, how Feminism can be such an amorphous entity isn’t it? A flex elect philosophical system that adapts itself to any crowd with whom one may be speaking.:cool:
I do realize that perhaps many may take umbrage with what I just said. Many will say such things like “I just admire the ideal of traditional marriage where men love and protect their wives, that is why I call myself a Man.”

Interesting it is, how Masculinity can be such an amorphous entity isn’t it? A flex elect philosophical system that adapts itself to any crowd with whom one may be speaking. :cool:
I should think that a Catholic would rather want to say " I am a member of the "Holy Family"model of feminity that advocates for the sanctity and grace and equality of women as per the teachings of Christ. Or at least some similar descriptor. A descriptor that, renders glory to Our Lord, as opposed to …Gloria Stienem.:rolleyes:
I should think that a Catholic would rather want to say "I am a member of the “Holy Family” model of masculinity that advocates for the sanctity and grace and equality of spouses as per the teachings of Christ. Or at least some similar descriptor. A descriptor that, renders glory to Our Lord, as opposed to … John Edwards. :rolleyes:

(Except for the fact that such a descriptor would never work in casual conversation - too ungainly. Before arguing further on the language front, please learn some basic principles of how language develops, how it is used, what words signify, and also what they don’t signify.)
And of course there is the term Feminism itself, as I have posted elsewhere, that by it’s very definition is exclusionary in regard to it’s very title. At no juncture in the term Feminsim, do I see the male being advocated for as well. Ergo methinks that Feminism as defined today, is just another self interest serving lobbying group that says me, me me. If not so, then why not, instead of Feminist, be called We-ist or Us - ist?
And, of course, you ignore the fact that I effectively countered your point elsewhere -
Well, the thing about language is that it doesn’t develop in a vacuum. Words are coined as an expression of a culture’s history and priorities. In this case, prior to feminism, it was (literally) a man’s world where women were second-class citizens. Against this backdrop, any assertion that women should be anything more than second-class citizens appears to be a disproportionate focus on the female; thus, “feminism.” Nothing more sinister than that.
You’re looking at the whole language thing backwards.
Once again - if you must resort to intellectual dishonesty to win the argument, you haven’t actually won the argument.
Why would any Catholic wish to be even remotely connected to such a, well, shall we say dubious, at best, organization**:confused:**

I do understand however, why Atheists call themselves Feminists.
Why would any Catholic wish to be even remotely connected to such a, well, shall we say dubious, at best, categorization. :confused:

I do understand, however, why Abusers call themselves men.
 
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I do realize that perhaps many may take umbrage with what I just said. Many will say such things like "I just admire the ideal of traditional marriage where men love and protect their wives, that is why I call myself a Man.
I must I say, am always fascinated when a Catholic refers to themselves as a man.
Are you seriously saying men should hesitate to call themselves men? Being a man is something to be ashamed of these days?
 
I must I say, am always fascinated when a Catholic refers to themselves as a Feminist.
There are non atheist based pro woman groups that **far **more represent the Christian context rather than the those termed as ‘Feminist’ by todays’ standards, I should think.

It is hard for me to* not* associate* A*bortion and Planned Parenthood with the likes of today’s such ‘Feminist’ Icons as Margaret Sanger, Sebellius and Pelosi. And yes I say ‘Feminism’ as defined by Modern Day Feminists, is, fundamentally entwined with Atheism just as it is fundamentally entwined with Planned Parenthood. I personally equate Atheism with Planned Parenthood. How can one not? It is certainly not a Christian ideal, now is it?

I do realize that perhaps many may take umbrage with what I just said. Many will say such things like " I just admire the ‘equal pay for equal work’ aspects of feminism, that is why I call myself a Feminist.

Interesting it is, how Feminism can be such an amorphous entity isn’t it? A flex elect philosophical system that adapts itself to any crowd with whom one may be speaking.:cool:

I should think that a Catholic would rather want to say " I am a member of the "Holy Family"model of feminity that advocates for the sanctity and grace and equality of women as per the teachings of Christ. Or at least some similar descriptor. A descriptor that, renders glory to Our Lord, as opposed to …Gloria Stienem.:rolleyes:

And of course there is the term Feminism itself, as I have posted elsewhere, that by it’s very definition is exclusionary in regard to it’s very title. At no juncture in the term Feminsim, do I see the male being advocated for as well. Ergo methinks that Feminism as defined today, is just another self interest serving lobbying group that says me, me me. If not so, then why not, instead of Feminist, be called We-ist or Us - ist?

Why would any Catholic wish to be even remotely connected to such a, well, shall we say dubious, at best, organization**:confused:**

I do understand however, why Atheists call themselves Feminists.
Why?

When did the Holy Family actively promote fair treatment for women?
For that matter, when did the Catholic Church promote fair treatment for women prior to the second half of the 20th century (when the idea had already become dominant in the West)?
 
Women are called to bring to the family, to society and to the Church, characteristics which are their own and which they alone can give: their gentle warmth and untiring generosity, their love for detail, their quick-wittedness and intuition, their simple and deep piety, their constancy… A woman’s femininity is genuine only if she is aware of the beauty of this contribution for which there is no substitute and if she incorporates it into her own life.

To fulfil this mission, a woman has to develop her own personality and not let herself be carried away by a naive desire to imitate, which, as a rule, would tend to put her in an inferior position and leave her unique qualities unfulfilled. If she is a mature person, with a character and mind of her own, she will indeed accomplish the mission to which she feels called, whatever it may be. Her life and work will be really constructive, fruitful and full of meaning, whether she spends the day dedicated to her husband and children or whether, having given up the idea of marriage for a noble reason, she has given herself fully to other tasks.

Each woman in her own sphere of life, if she is faithful to her divine and human vocation can and, in fact, does achieve the fullness of her feminine personality. Let us remember that Mary, Mother of God and Mother of men, is not only a model but also a proof of the transcendental value of an apparently unimportant life.

Conversations with Msgr. Escrivá
 
It’s not simply that we HATE WOMEN. Mind you, we do HATE WOMEN. Obviously. But the primary cause of this epidemic of woman-oppression is, I submit, FEAR of the feminine.

MISOGYNY, sure; but don’t forget about the extreme GYNOPHOBIA.
For a bit of context.

In Spiration and I got into a long debate over whether or not women are intellectually inferior (to men) in an earlier thread. With In Spiration arguing the* women are stupid *position in the thread.

There’s a link to the old thread if anyone is curious:
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=530819&highlight=In+Spiration&page=6
 
I must I say, am always fascinated when a Catholic refers to themselves as a man.
There are non abuse-based categorizations that far more represent the *Christian context *rather than those termed as ‘men’ by today’s standards, I should think.

(You DO realize, don’t you, that the original feminists who claimed the label were Christian and pro-life? If you need to resort to intellectual dishonesty to win the argument, you haven’t won the argument at all.)

It is hard for me to not associate abuse and serial infidelity with the likes of modern men, who create the need for feminism to secure the defense of women. And yes I say ‘men’ as defined by Modern Day Masculinity, is, fundamentally, entwined with abuse and serial infidelity just as it is fundamentally entwined with a “Might makes right, women must submit” family management philosophy. I personally equate abuse with Masculinity. How can one not? It is certainly not a Christian ideal, now is it?

I do realize that perhaps many may take umbrage with what I just said. Many will say such things like “I just admire the ideal of traditional marriage where men love and protect their wives, that is why I call myself a Man.”

Interesting it is, how Masculinity can be such an amorphous entity isn’t it? A flex elect philosophical system that adapts itself to any crowd with whom one may be speaking. :cool:

I should think that a Catholic would rather want to say "I am a member of the “Holy Family” model of masculinity that advocates for the sanctity and grace and equality of spouses as per the teachings of Christ. Or at least some similar descriptor. A descriptor that, renders glory to Our Lord, as opposed to … John Edwards. :rolleyes:

(Except for the fact that such a descriptor would never work in casual conversation - too ungainly. Before arguing further on the language front, please learn some basic principles of how language develops, how it is used, what words signify, and also what they don’t signify.)

And, of course, you ignore the fact that I effectively countered your point elsewhere -

Once again - if you must resort to intellectual dishonesty to win the argument, you haven’t actually won the argument.

Why would any Catholic wish to be even remotely connected to such a, well, shall we say dubious, at best, categorization. :confused:

I do understand, however, why Abusers call themselves men.
Regardless of its roots, the unqualified term “feminist” has become virtually synonymous with being “pro-choice” in mainstream society. I do understand how authentic Catholic women would like to “reclaim” the word, but unless the statement is qualifed by a statement denoting otherwise, generally people won’t understand that one means a feminist in the JPII sense of being pro-woman, pro-life. Indeed, any mainstream feminist will tell you that the very fact that you believe in a fetus’ right-to-life “trumping” a woman’s right-to-choose means that you are certainly not a feminist, and are, in fact, most likely an internalized misogynist!
 
Are you seriously saying men should hesitate to call themselves men? Being a man is something to be ashamed of these days?
Men should hesitate, it is after all a New World. Women are smarter than men, If women ruled the world there would be no wars. Being a man is shameful. :rolleyes:
 
Disagreeing with radical feminism is anti-woman!? How idiotic!

I thought that men’s right would counter radical feminism, but I was wrong since it would only lead to further alienation between women and men.
 
Husbands and wives are indeed to submit to one another.

But can you show me where it says it is not Catholic doctrine for a wife to submit to her husband?

By the way in response to what someone posted before, a husband is to love his wife as Christ loved the Church. To me, that is an obvious huge responsibility.
It is not Catholic doctrine that the wife should submit to her husband. It does not say so in the CCC as explained by its Compendium. JPII spoke of mutual submission.

Yes Paul said that but in what context. We do not have to follow what Paul said literally or always. How could any human being be like Christ at all. We should all, men and women try to be Christ like and if we do, there should be submission to God, mutual respect and the love of Christ in a marriage. That would not mean the submission of one and the domination by the other.
 
From what I have observed its pretty normal for CAF:shrug:
You have to remember that Catholic Answers is a relatively conservative (Catholic) forum, and that there is a significant number of hardcore conservatives here that take the idea that women were created to be men’s helpers/assistants very seriously.
Rather a broad and sweeping generalization -yes?:rolleyes:

And this “there is a significant number of hardcore conservatives here that take the idea that women were created to be men’s helpers/assistants very seriously.” is a stunning example of not only stereotypical male bashing, but conservative bashing as well, is it not? You can bolster this claim with something other than your apparently prejudiced opinion I hope? :cool:

*Certainly *your statement does not reflect the Scriptual context that the Catholic Faith advocates now does it?

It is this very ‘culture of acceptable verbal discrimination’ regarding men as so eloquently evidenced by your comments that highlights the need to reverse such a pervasive, mutually detrimental environment. The comment you offered above wreaks of the Us versus Them mentality IMHO.
 
Valuable traditions like arranged marriages:rolleyes:
Indeed? How about the ‘valuable tradition’ of treating men like Army Ants to fight wars? Please! Do not give me the non plausible stuff about how women do not inflict war! What about Maggie Thatcher and the Falklands?
 
I do believe it was because of a woman the Trojan war was started. :whistle:
 
I must I say, am always fascinated when a Catholic refers to themselves as a man.
There are non abuse-based categorizations that far more represent the *Christian context *rather than those termed as ‘men’ by today’s standards, I should think.

(You DO realize, don’t you, that the original feminists who claimed the label were Christian and pro-life? If you need to resort to intellectual dishonesty to win the argument, you haven’t won the argument at all.)

It is hard for me to not associate abuse and serial infidelity with the likes of modern men, who create the need for feminism to secure the defense of women. And yes I say ‘men’ as defined by Modern Day Masculinity, is, fundamentally, entwined with abuse and serial infidelity just as it is fundamentally entwined with a “Might makes right, women must submit” family management philosophy. I personally equate abuse with Masculinity. How can one not? It is certainly not a Christian ideal, now is it?

I do realize that perhaps many may take umbrage with what I just said. Many will say such things like “I just admire the ideal of traditional marriage where men love and protect their wives, that is why I call myself a Man.”

Interesting it is, how Masculinity can be such an amorphous entity isn’t it? A flex elect philosophical system that adapts itself to any crowd with whom one may be speaking. :cool:

I should think that a Catholic would rather want to say "I am a member of the “Holy Family” model of masculinity that advocates for the sanctity and grace and equality of spouses as per the teachings of Christ. Or at least some similar descriptor. A descriptor that, renders glory to Our Lord, as opposed to … John Edwards. :rolleyes:

(Except for the fact that such a descriptor would never work in casual conversation - too ungainly. Before arguing further on the language front, please learn some basic principles of how language develops, how it is used, what words signify, and also what they don’t signify.)

And, of course, you ignore the fact that I effectively countered your point elsewhere -

Once again - if you must resort to intellectual dishonesty to win the argument, you haven’t actually won the argument.

Why would any Catholic wish to be even remotely connected to such a, well, shall we say dubious, at best, categorization. :confused:

I do understand, however, why Abusers call themselves men.
I can have fun with all of these.

However I will start with one for now.-

“(You DO realize, don’t you, that the original feminists who claimed the label were Christian and pro-life? If you need to resort to intellectual dishonesty to win the argument, you haven’t won the argument at all.)”

So. Margaret Sanger as indicated by my High Schoolers text book as a Feminsit Icon, was Pro - life eh?
:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

I say! You accuse me of intellectual dishonesty? Ahmmmmmmmm?
 
The “Catholic Feminism” may not necessarily be (overtly) atheistic, but it does indeed derive from principles that presume necessary skepticism re: absolutes, the supernatural, the Good, etc. I think the feminism of many Christians is probably more tied to an implicitly assumed egalitarianism that they likely picked up through the culture at large. Their main concerns seem to be in promoting “freedom,” which, according to liberal theory, is not defined as the ability to do good, but instead as mere autonomy. So the goal becomes simply to maximize the total amount of choice for individuals with different-but-equal values (which, for women who believe all male dominance is oppression, amounts to female-centered egalitarianism, or “feminism”). Egalitarian liberalism is in part an attempt to achieve neutrality through tolerant non-judgment. It ends up reducing goodness to preference, or the “freedom” to maximize the pursuit of one’s hyper-individualized preferences in a fundamentally atomistic society. (I’m summing up complex theories and history pretty briefly here, so please permit the simplifications I’ve made in this short post.)

A lot of Catholics find feminism harmless due to the fact its costs are hidden. But make no mistake – we pay for all forms of feminism in one way or another. Nothing is free. The cost is a gradual loss of civilization (after demographic winter), and the currency is artificial contraception and abortion. (Men will then try to recover their losses through other means, including pornography and avoidance of marriage – see: Japan.) Feminism simply would not be feasible if women were in large, fruitful, truly Catholic families, and the majority of them would be if they couldn’t sinfully satisfy their sexual urges “without any [explicit] consequences”. One could argue that feminism is effectively an attempt to shift the costs of women’s bad “choices” onto children, men, or the State.

Thus we sacrifice human souls so that we can sustain the “liberation” of women from the terrible life of having many children while their husbands work hard to support them.

And we think human sacrifice is a thing of the past. . . as the abortion death toll approaches one billion worldwide.
Thanks for that. Perhaps some of those that need to will actually read it!
Not holding my breath tho-😉
 
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