Whats wrong with female altar girls?

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Philomeena:
Do any of the people who posted who believe that there are too many EMHCs realize that this ministry encompasses bringing the Eucharist to the homebound and hospitalized?
There is no way a parish with one Priest could ever accomplish that alone.
At the parishes I have belonged to, the EMHCs who do this sick and homebound ministry are women. It would be very sad to see these numbers diminish for any reason.
We used to have a very holy Franciscan priest, rest his soul, who always brought Communion to the sick. He invited parish members along, but only he gave the host and blessed them.
As it should be, since only the priest’s hands have been consecrated to touch the host.
 
Dr. Bombay:
Because it began as an abuse and, after nearly two decades, Rome finally caved and approved them. Something that starts as a “thumb your nose at Rome” statement should not then be blessed by Rome. I understand why Rome did it, for the same reason they caved on Communion in the hand. But it still began as prideful, willful disobedience.

Back in the late 70s, our progressive priest started this nonsense but only with one girl. Unfortunately, she was a cute little thing who happened to be a classmate of mine and I had a terrible crush on her. So, when she served alongside me, my mind was anywhere but on the Mass. Now, do 11,12, 13 year old boys get distracted easily? Yes. But let me tell you. At that age pretty girls tend to distract us a lot more than the pretty sunlight streaming thru the stained glass window. I’m sure this scenario has been repeated countless times over the past decade or so. An altar boy’s mind should be on Christ at Mass, not the cute babe next to him.

Bottom line…this is pride and disobedience now mixed with pubescent sexual tension. Do we really need this in our sanctuaries?

And there’s clearly an agenda behind girl altar boys. Anyone who can’t see it needs to wake up.
You are so right! In the words of Fr. John Corapi “when you teach the wind, you reap the whirlwind…” and here we are.

I’ve left my altar-girl parish for one who only uses altar boy in the traditional cassocks. The reverence of this Church is heartening! This Church also has the tabernacle front and center, where the KING OF KINGS should be.

Interesting too… just as a side note… I went to a Rosary Congress last year and met with several young nuns. They said that the orders who wear the habit (as opposed to street clothes) are the ones who are florishing!

Interesting…

Blessings,
Joanie
 
I think we need more. The lack of girl altar boys is astonishing… I mean, err, uhh…
 
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Freeway4321:
I think we need more. The lack of girl altar boys is astonishing… I mean, err, uhh…
Yes, the lack of girl altar boys is a crisis. I suggest the USCCB appoint a commission to study the problem and make recommendations. Which will be submitted to the Vatican, vetted, returned to the USCCB, revised, re-submitted to the Vatican, gutted entirely, returned to the USCCB, new Commission appointed, revised draft submitted…

…maybe we’ll have an answer to this crisis by 2025?
 
Dr. Bombay:
Yes, the lack of girl altar boys is a crisis. I suggest the USCCB appoint a commission to study the problem and make recommendations. Which will be submitted to the Vatican, vetted, returned to the USCCB, revised, re-submitted to the Vatican, gutted entirely, returned to the USCCB, new Commission appointed, revised draft submitted…

…maybe we’ll have an answer to this crisis by 2025?
I laugh… yet it’s so true.

Things always work out for the best when the USCCB is on the job. I mean, err, uhh…slipping up alot tonight.
 
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FuzzyBunny116:
Why does everyone seem to be against them so much?
Those who see no problem with girls as acolytes during the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass, miss the point by a mile! One has to understand the mind set of young boys to fully understand what makes a boy tick. When he sees girls in the sanctuary and when he sees female EMHCs, a young boy no longer sees the priesthood and all that surrounds it as something uniquely male. When he sees, year after year, the feminization of the Faith, he no longer sees a unique role for himself.

Does anyone think that a young man walking into a Marine Corps recruiting station would ever think of signing up if the recruiters were female? Not hardly.

I’ve always chuckle when I hear women try to explain how boys and men think. Good luck. You just won’t be able to do it.----If we are ever to regain our pre-Vatican II numbers to the priesthood, we need to return the sanctuary to the priest and to male acolytes only! (I would also add, end the reign of the EMHCs.)
 
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Philomeena:
Do any of the people who posted who believe that there are too many EMHCs realize that this ministry encompasses bringing the Eucharist to the homebound and hospitalized?
There is no way a parish with one Priest could ever accomplish that alone.
At the parishes I have belonged to, the EMHCs who do this sick and homebound ministry are women. It would be very sad to see these numbers diminish for any reason.
However, I think where this is the case, too many priests and deacons don’t make any of the home visits. Yet it is part of their job description!!!

Isn’t it the priest’s “job” to administer the sacraments? At Mass, it may take a little longer… why is that an “extraordinary” thing that requires EMHCs? I/we spend longer going to the home of a human for dinner, than I/we do going to visit the Lord.
 
Oh, boy! Another anti-altar girl thread. How many does this make? All I can say, is “No comment”.
 
Dr. Bombay:
Why must they prance around the sanctuary like they’re co-priests?
I don’t think I have ever seen an EMHC -male or female-prance. Is this a form of liturgical dancing to which you refer??? :confused:
 
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Brain:
i dont think you are joking! blessed sacrament just northwest of the university of washington does this all the time. when the grown women serve, they walk beside the priest in the procession, and sit next to him in the sanctuary (child-servers dont do this) and tend to stand and not kneel during the concecration. (not only do i think grown women are innapropriate as servers in a parish setting, no server should be doing the actions proper to the priest alone)
This used to happen at my parish (with my old pastor) and it was horrible. Wanna-be priestesses acting just as you describe. We had one male doing the same thing (for years.) Some even handed-out communion! Thankfully this has ceased with the coming of a new pastor.

When the new pastor came, some of the good servers even caught heck (initially) for kneeling during the consecration from the “liturgy committee!”
 
Originally Posted by Dr. Bombay
*Because it began as an abuse and, after nearly two decades, Rome finally caved and approved them. Something that starts as a “thumb your nose at Rome” statement should not then be blessed by Rome. I understand why Rome did it, for the same reason they caved on Communion in the hand. But it still began as prideful, willful disobedience.
AMEN TO THE ABOVE STATEMENT - LENIS
 
This is something I was told by a rector of a seminary on why he is against female altar servers and I agree with it. This also goes for women doing readings.

The altar server was originally an ordained male. He was ordained to the office acolyte. Now only men may be ordained to this office. So they stoped ordaining acolytes and started to just appoint people to be altar servers.

Same goes for those who read the Epistle and the Old Testament (for you Latin Catholics) readings. This used to be done by ordained lectors. Yes I know some places still call them lectors but the office of lector is an ordained office. Those people reading who are called lectors are not really lectors.

So what we are doing now is having people serve in positions that used to be ordained positions.

IMHO, just another bluring of the lines between clergy and laity.
 
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Philomeena:
I don’t think I have ever seen an EMHC -male or female-prance. Is this a form of liturgical dancing to which you refer??? :confused:
Well, I haven’t seen any prancing, but I have seen strutting. I returned recently to the parish/diocese where I grew up for a visit and my once, very orthodox and beautiful traditional church complete with marble floors and marble altar rails, stained glass windows, and the most beautiful crucifix I’ve yet to see in my life has gone stark-raving mad!!! Most of the EMHC’s are older women. They seem very proud of their new-found independence and EMHC stature (it took a few decades for this parish to ‘modernize’). They wear HUGE, shiny silver crosses around their necks that blind you when the sun hits them just right, and yes, strut around the sanctuary and behind the altar passing chalices and ciboriums back and forth as they try to decide who gets to distribute what. Apparently, from what I could tell from the pecking order, the Body of our Lord is more desirable to distribute than the Precious Blood of our Lord. It was a sight I never want to see again. The priest just stood by. I took all I had to sit through the rest of Mass given how much disrespect was taking place in the sanctuary.

We need those prayers to St. Michael everyday now more than ever.
 
I too remember it very well. I used to train altar boys. I watched the liberal forces in the church who are for women’s ordination push for female altar servers. They started out as a liturgical abuse, even Pope John Paul II tried to correct the abuse, but it continued in spite of him. Then eventually the Vatican caved in to the demands of the liberals.

When the change happened, and the Vatican began to allow altar girls at the discretion of the local Ordinary I was told that I had to start training girls as well. I refused and resigned.

The reason, bottom line behind female altar servers is exactly what they are for- to get everyone accustomed to seeing females do something that previously only males were allowed to do in order to desensitize the people to women in the priesthood.

Of course, there never will be women priests, in order for that to happen the Pope would have to change doctrine, something the Holy Spirit will not allow and in fact the Holy Spirit would kill the Pope before he even tried to change such doctrine.

Like Mother Angelica said, “It is like a child who keeps crying for the cookie, ‘I WANNA COOKIE, I WANNA COOKIE!!!’ Seems just like a parent in this case, tired of the cries giving the child the cookie.”

Previously, serving at the altar was seen to be a way to get a child interested in the priesthood. Of course when I was an altar boy all of us wanted to be the priest. We had pride in ourselves as Altar Boys, an organization the little girls were not allowed into. There was comradery and pride in what we did, serving at the Altar of God.

Ken
Dr. Bombay:
Because it began as an abuse and, after nearly two decades, Rome finally caved and approved them. Something that starts as a “thumb your nose at Rome” statement should not then be blessed by Rome. I understand why Rome did it, for the same reason they caved on Communion in the hand. But it still began as prideful, willful disobedience.

Back in the late 70s, our progressive priest started this nonsense but only with one girl. Unfortunately, she was a cute little thing who happened to be a classmate of mine and I had a terrible crush on her. So, when she served alongside me, my mind was anywhere but on the Mass. Now, do 11,12, 13 year old boys get distracted easily? Yes. But let me tell you. At that age pretty girls tend to distract us a lot more than the pretty sunlight streaming thru the stained glass window. I’m sure this scenario has been repeated countless times over the past decade or so. An altar boy’s mind should be on Christ at Mass, not the cute babe next to him.

Bottom line…this is pride and disobedience now mixed with pubescent sexual tension. Do we really need this in our sanctuaries?

And there’s clearly an agenda behind girl altar boys. Anyone who can’t see it needs to wake up.
 
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Kielbasi:
I don’t know, but I think its a plea for the past, nostalgic urges at work. A little short sighted.

The Magesterium has o.k.'ed the altar service of girls, and I think they realize that this work might help at least some of the girls discern a calling to serve as adult women as readers or Eucharistic Ministers of Holy Communion.
Problem again is that it was started in defiance, continued in disobedience, and the people behind it will not stop at being a lay reader or “Eucharistic Minister” (SIC). “Extraordinary Minister of Holy Communion”]. They want the priesthood, at least the proponents of female altar servers do. The small children, God knows what their parents tell them, if they even know that a woman can never be a priest. Behind the agenda is that now, one area of recruitment for the priesthood, a major one is now compromised. Young men will no longer want to serve at the altar because girls do it also.

If the posts like mine and the other are for “nostalgia urges” then why is it that ROME FORBIDS women to serve at the altar in the Diocese of Rome? Is that Nastalgia? What about the E.D. indult communities in communion with Rome today who also forbid female altar servers, is that nostalgia? These proponents of female altar servers have designes on changing the Catholic faith into something NOT CATHOLIC.

Ken
 
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Philomeena:
I don’t think I have ever seen an EMHC -male or female-prance. Is this a form of liturgical dancing to which you refer??? :confused:
Pardon me. The correct word was “mince.” :tiphat:
 
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FuzzyBunny116:
Why does everyone seem to be against them so much?
Small mindedness… My Granddaughter is an altar server and does a superb job as does her younger brother who serves w/ her.
 
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Annunciata:
Small mindedness… My Granddaughter is an altar server and does a superb job as does her younger brother who serves w/ her.
I am not in favor of girl altar boys… and I have told I have a very big head
 
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