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When it comes to expect love, one must give first, one must earn the love and the gratitude of someone. Now, this remark will be answered thus: “God gave you life” (unsupported assumption) and it is also based upon the unsubstantiated concept that “mere existence is always preferable to nonexistence” - which is simply false. The other argument is always based upon John 3:16 - and that is just another promise. God most certainly does not behave as one should expect from a loving person. If a human would behave as God does (or does not), no one would say that he is a “loving and caring” person.
Well since you’ve already dismissed the common arguments I guess I have nothing more to offer excpet the example of the parent to the child. Does a child owe love to a loving parent? The Child did not ask to be born. Yet the child is born frm Love and is Loved by the parent for simply because it exists. This does not absolve the Child from a duty toward the parent or the parent to the child.
God Loves us because He made us. He teaches us and disciplines us because he loves us as a parent.
So - to me anyway - I see God as fulfilling your requirement of Loving us first.
And this leads to the final problem, which separates believers and non-believers: the non-believers use the same measuring rod, the believers use special pleading for God’s case. This is pretty ironic, since the believers assert that there is one “absolute morality”, and yet, they refuse to apply the same standard when it comes to God. And that is the problem. This is the reason for all the disgreements. And the non-believers cannot be blamed for the difference. We use the same measuring stick, the believers do not.
You may well be right. This gets quickly into the areas of “I Don’t Know”…🤷

Peace
James
 
I am sure you did not mean this to be insulting. But it is. The blame is always placed on the skeptics, they are unwilling to listen, or are impatient, or they are considered too “proud”, or they refuse to have “faith”, or they are not willing to trust authority, or they don’t like the restrictions put on their sex life, or… thousands of other excuses - all of them lame and insulting. Sorry to be harsh, but these kinds of “arguments” are wearing pretty thin after hundreds and thousands of repetitions. 🙂
My apologies. I do not mean to insult, but you must expect certain answers to certain questions/comments so long as you choose to associate with people of faith.

As to not listening…
The teacher can hardly be blamed it the student sleeps during class now can he.
The lecturer is not to blame if the student does not come to the lecture.
It is a matter of being properly disposed to listening. To discerning, AND to keeping an open mind - something that is valued just as much in science as in faith.

I do not speak to you here as Catholic or even as a Christian. I speak only as one who has come to see God in all, to hear his voice and even sometimes to feel his presence close by in my life.
It’s not about punishment or “carrot-n-stick” or anything like that. It’s about simple wonder at God’s Love, at God’s creation, at how God has provided for me. I cannot explain it. Perhaps I am just naturally disposed this way and you are disposed the opposite - I don’t know.

I just know that I don’t need all of the answers as to why “God”, “Supreme Being”, “Force” or whatever one wishes to coin it, has ordered thing as they are. I just know that there is something wonderful, Loving, caring, and good in my life. It challenges and it rewards. It is as far above our understanding today as black holes are above the understanding of a mouse.

It is not my desire to make you a Christian or a Catholic. My only desire is that you open your mind and your heart to the possibility that contained somewhere in “I don’t Know” whether coming from a priest or a physicist, is a supreme intelligent creator. Just a possiblility mind you. It is the admission ot that possibility and making it a part of your character, that begins to properly dispose one to seeking the ansers in simplicity (which to my mind is key). I use to say, and still hold it as true, that, “God IS, all the rest is details”. It was only when I forgot about “the details” and accepted a simple God and Love as His key, that I really began to grow.

Remember when we reach the end of our knowledge there remains the great “I don’t Know”

Peace
James
 
Well, that sounds pretty omninous. 🙂 Obviously I do not believe, and the reason is simple: I don’t find the evidence sufficient.

So what is the evidence? An old book, loaded with superstitions, all sorts of errors, scientific nonsense, unbelievable claims. A human institution (the Catholic Church) which claims (but only claims!) to have been founded by Jesus. The evidence for this is the Bible (unreliable) and the “so-called” sacred tradition (human concoction). That is all. There are a bunch of logical “proofs”, all of which are founded on fallacies. There is nothing to put my hands on - the evidence given to Thomas is not available to us. As Bernard Russel said: “if he would find God after his death, he would say: ‘Ok, so you exist after all. But why didn’t you give more evidence?’…” and I agree with him. The evidence is seriously lacking.

Now, according to you (in general, not personal “you”) it was God who gave me this inquisitve mind. I simply cannot accept that God gave my skeptical nature, and at the same time he would demand to suspend my skills when it comes to religious claims. That would be inconsistent.

According to your post, I am out of luck. I don’t have faith, and therefore cannot repent, and therefore God is “unable” to forgive me. Tough luck… after all it is “only” eternal punishment which I am facing… no big deal - and that eternal punishment is meted out in the name of “love” and “mercy” and “justice”. As I used to say: “with a God like that, who needs the devil?”.
Yup - I agree - you are in a quandry and I am totally inadequate to help you out of it.

I think that the big issue is Pride. Now don’t take this the wrong way because believe me Pride is a problem all the way across the board amonbg believers and nonbelievers alike.
In fact Pride is said to be the deadly sin from which the others flow.

I think you’ll agree that there are many christians who display “pride” and even “arrogance” in how they try to approach you and evangelize to you. I think you’ll aslo agree that there are many non-believers who display "Pride’ in how they viciously attack anything related to faith and God. These are examples of obvious pride, but Pride is a subtle and incidious trait that can sneak in on the best of us.

In your case, it seems to take the form of,
“I’ve studied how others have described God and find the evidence unconvincing and contradictory”,
“Therefore I conclude that God does not exist - period”. (conclusion based soley on the descriptions given you by others)
“If there is a God, he is so evil (in your eyes) that I want nothing to do with Him”.

In this case, what is there for God to forgive? You do not believe in Him, or even the possibility of Him. You are right and that is that. No room for discussion, no possibility of error on your part. None whatsoever.

In faith circles it is refered to as hardening of the heart. I believe Jesus refered to it as being “still necked”.

I too apologize for being harsh. But you see that, while I never have rejected the idea of God, I have been throught the whole issue of “what God”, “which belief system”, “sho’s description” and so on…
I’ve seen the contraditions and I still don’t understand them.
But I think that I have discovered the only real and true thing about God, at least from our perspective, that is true across the board of the great realigions. Love God and Love neighbor. So I seek God, not so much in the bible, or the Koran, or in any other written word as I seek God in my heart, in Love and in Truth.
I think that is what I mean by being properly disposed.
  1. Admit the possiblitiy
  2. Seek Him in simplicity
  3. Seek Him in Love
Peace
James
 
Wonderful. Now we can both recognize that, since neither one of us has died, we cannot “know” what happens after bodily death. In other words I if I ask you what happens after we die, your proper response is “I Don’t Know”, but I believe that…(such and such) happens based on (thus and so)…"
Yes, I agree. The problem is that many things are possible, and also many of them do not point in the same direction. We must choose based upon incomplete information. All of us choose whichever “direction” seems to be most likely. So there is no difference here.
I don’t know if I can give you a satisfactory answer here. I only know that the answers will come. Sometimes quickly sometimes only after years. Some answers I guess I’m still waiting on and won’t be answered until after I die.
Yes, as you properly guessed, the answer is not very satisfactory. But that is fine, since you gave a good attempt. I understand your analogy, and there is nothing wrong with it, but it is deficient. The result of a missed science class is not on par on the unanswered questions I am talking about.
I will admit that I do not particularly like the concept of Hell - I don’t think anyone really does. I certainly don’t wish to see you there anymore that you would wish me there.
I also agree that there is a certain “carrot and stick” mentality behind it. But I wonder how much of that is because we really NEED it.
Truthfully, for myself, I almost never think of hell as a possibility. Why? Because I don’t look at my faith as an “avoidance of punishment” but rather as a journey toward Joy. In other words I’m not looking down, I’m looking up. I don’t avoid sin becuase I might “go to hell”, I avoid sin because it offends - because of what I see it do to my neighbor - because it violates the Law of Love.
Unfortunately there are many who do not see this. They hurt others indescriminately, look out only for their own skins etc. Hell is a way to try and save their hides.
In other words, God wishes our Love to be built on the positives of Love. In many cases he first has to get our attention. If the benefits of Love won’t get our attention, perhaps the threat of punishment will. Then, once he has our attention, he and we can begin to see and build on the benfits. Do you see what I’m driving at?
I know any number of parents - Good Loving Parents (my own included) who use this same tactic. Promise reward for good behavior but if that doesn’t work, then threaten punishment or bad behavior.
Yes, but I will have to point out that this tactics should be only applied to children, who don’t have proper understanding. I can only offer my own example. My parents almost never punished me, but sometimes it was necessary. When I was about 8 years old, I told my mother not to spank me, because if she explains to me what I do wrong, I can understand it, and will follow her word. True enough, she never punished me from that moment onward. There was no need, the explanation was sufficient. Sometimes the explanation had to be watered down (obviously), but by that time she earned my trust, and that was enough. I must emphasize that trust must be earned. 🙂

But there is something much deeper going on here. If we are truly unable to comprehend the norms of proper behavior, if we are truly just uncomprehending children, then we should be treated like children, and never, ever impose “adult” punishment. If, however, we are able to understand, then we should be treated like adults. Which means that it is the duty of God to explain the rules, explictly. It is not enough to resort to an ancient book, which can be justly doubted.

We are either children, and then the punishment should be adminstered as such, or we are adults, and then we deserve the proper guidance and explanation. I don’t know how you relate to Genesis, maybe you take it literally, maybe analogically. It does not matter. The events described there are problematic, for the reasons I mentioned. The “sin” there (which was just disobedience, and not an offense against reason) was punished too harshly, and according to the usual belief, it still “taints” us. Which is sheer nonsense. A simple act of disobedience does not have that much power.
 
Well since you’ve already dismissed the common arguments I guess I have nothing more to offer excpet the example of the parent to the child. Does a child owe love to a loving parent? The Child did not ask to be born. Yet the child is born frm Love and is Loved by the parent for simply because it exists. This does not absolve the Child from a duty toward the parent or the parent to the child.
God Loves us because He made us. He teaches us and disciplines us because he loves us as a parent.
So - to me anyway - I see God as fulfilling your requirement of Loving us first.
Well, we disagree. 🙂 No big surprise there. If we stay with the analogy of parent-child relationship, then the parent’s responsibility does not end at the time the child is delivered. It extends all the way until the child becomes an adult - just like the parent. This is the point where the analogy breaks down, or does it? If we can never be like God (adults), then the caring portion never ends. And it is manifestly not there.
You may well be right. This gets quickly into the areas of “I Don’t Know”…🤷
Oops, this time you can’t get off the hook that easily. 😉 You and I are the two “observers”. We both observe two beings acting the same way. We must judge their actions. On what ground would you decide to use two measuring rods? The statue of justice (the goddess Justitia) is always depicted with a blindfold, the scale and the sword. She is expected not to peek, and she is expected to judge the acts uniformly, regardless of the being who committed the act and regardless of the person against whom the act was committed. That is the only way to deliver justice.
 
Well Mr Daneel, I know we won’t come to an understanding on these matters and I do understand how difficult it can be to come to terms with the issues and the details involved.
That is why, in my own journey I kept peeling away the details until I could come to the core. For me, that core was Love, all of the descriptions, all of the details, all of the “inconcistancies” and everything else paled in comparison. They just became so much unimportant “balderdash” when compared to God and His Love.

I cannot explain it any better than that, and I don’t really expect you to accept it or find it “satisfactory”. I only ask that you consider that, in the final analysis, we cannot know until after death and it is just plain foolish to close off the possiblility on the basis of what is imperfectly known.

This simple acceptance of the possibility may be enough to allow one to ask for and accept God’s mercy, where outright denial will surely prevent this. Can you see at least this?

Peace
James
 
Hello, Daneel! Long time, no see. (I did a disappearing act.) 🙂
God does not argue, God is silent. It is not God, whom I question, it is YOU. If God is right, why doesn’t he tell us?
Whenever I’m around someone I greatly admire and respect, and I’m talking to them, I’m always much more moved by their silence than their speech. But why would they be silent, if they know so much? Because the answers aren’t “out there.” They’re in here – we already know the answers, but we aren’t aware of our knowledge. God’s silence makes us listen to a voice much richer and more resonant than any voice speaking in the clouds – the voice of our own innate sense.

You’re right about evangelists, of course (at least for the most part). When Job was struck down, a number of rabbis came to visit him, preaching all the wrong things. They told him some truth, and some convenient lies. The truths they told were far more damaging than the lies. But, when it comes to a far more important question than the holiness of evangelists – when it comes to the question of whether God exists – we owe it to ourselves to step away from the shouting Christians and the shouting atheists. The question is: what does the silence say to you?

Perhaps, for you, the silence speaks of a world without God. I don’t know, and I don’t presume to know. For me, the silence speaks of a world redeemed.



Now, supposing God does speak, why should we obey Him? Is this truly a heavenly tyranny, is God an overgrown Machiavellian prince?

Not in the Christian story. Jesus is worthy of our respect, as a man. And the man Jesus is our access to the character of God, who is also worthy of respect.
 
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