Okay, I don’t get the whole hatred of the novus ordo or life teen mass, at least from my perspective. At the life teen mass I go to, the only complaint is the music, which is a little too contemporary, but beautiful none the less. It’s a place where kids have reverence and the priest has gone miles to correct this, even stopping the mass if the kids get too crazy during the sign of peace, etc. So I don’t think its the program itself, but the people running it.
Also, I’ve only ever gone to my parishes novus ordo mass. Being in a fairly conservative diocese in the midwest, I’ve never seen any abuses or problems, and I feel my mass is just as valid as the TLM. We don’t sing contemporary hymns or do anything crazy. I wish people would realize that you can have very reverent novus ordo masses.