I had a conversation with my Aunt today. The subject of “once saved, always saved” came up. Her opinion is that salvation, once given, can never be lost. This idea got me thinking…

Can someone choose to reject the gift God has given them? Could somebody turn from God and reject the Grace and Mercy that He offers? If OSAS holds true, then it seems one would no longer have a choice in the matter. It seems that the person’s free will would be null and void on this subject. Does somebody lose their free will to choose God, once they are saved?
I pose this question to the non-Catholics, I understand and fully accept the Catholic Church’s teaching on this matter. I pose the question to open some honest conversation and understand the OSAS point of view better.
It would be so nice if once we were saved we were always saved. But if you think about it, if God took away our free will, why live? What would be the purpose of living?
We are put here to be tested and tempted the way God was tested and tempted. God wants us to truly love him and come to him on our own free will.
When we sin we lose God, we separate ourself from him, we can either continue to be separated from him, or repent confess, and be back to his good grace.
Even sin, as much as I hate to admit it, can show us something good sometimes. When we are in a state of Grace, we are happy, want to live, have no fear, etc.
But when we sin we have the opposite, hate in our heart, jealousy, fear, anxiety, etc. Sometimes the good, not that sin is good, but the good that can come out of sin is sometimes you never know what you have until you lose it.
Then when you get back into a state of Grace you can really appreciate what free will truly is. And what a great thing Christ did by giving us the Sacraments to bring us back to his grace when we fail. And once you are out of his grace, you can relate to the hopeless, etc, and show them what the free will to choose God can really do.
Just another way God can make a good out of a bad. And why I think there is a reason that we can fall out of grace. God always has lessons for us, especially when we make bad choices.