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Anrakyr
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The homeless problem is easier to solve.
Just give them homes.
Just give them homes.
I volunteered at my parish’s homeless shelter for a good decade, staying overnight to supervise. I’ve had many, many chats with homeless gentlemen (and a few women) as well as other volunteers. (Note that I’m in Australia.)People need homes, we build them new ones. There are ways. The questions shouldn’t be how its why haven’t we?
Cheats and scammers exist. That makes it easy to dismiss all the panhandlers, all the homeless, as cheats and scammers. The fact is that most are not.Depending on where your from some of these people aren’t even poor and just asking for money. I have seen people wearing nice clothes with Jordan’s saying they are poor. It’s not to hard to weave who is actually struggling though if you actually analyze them for a moment. I have bought someone food before, but never am I giving cash away because they will most likely use it for drugs an alcohol.
I am reminded of the Holy Family of Stone County (Arkansas). A woman comes by a church saying her mother just died in California. She wasn’t able to get out there in time to see her alive, but she must go to the funeral. But her car isn’t running. She has an estimate for repairs, and of course she needs money for gas, food and lodging.Depending on where your from some of these people aren’t even poor and just asking for money. I have seen people wearing nice clothes with Jordan’s saying they are poor. It’s not to hard to weave who is actually struggling though if you actually analyze them for a moment. I have bought someone food before, but never am I giving cash away because they will most likely use it for drugs an alcohol.
Yes, and I’ve known many homeless men to be well dressed. There’s often an endless supply of relatively new clothing from various organisation since our consumerist society disposes of perfectly fine clothing as soon as it’s out of season. Moreover, they - like us - tend to be self-conscious about personal hygiene: we want to blend in, not stick out (especially in respect to body odour).Cheats and scammers exist. That makes it easy to dismiss all the panhandlers, all the homeless, as cheats and scammers. The fact is that most are not.
Good point. The money is best used by a reputable, professional charity that knows the most effective way to help these people. It is easy to be overcome by guilt, sometimes wanting to directly assist each and every person we see in this situation. But that is unreasonable and can also be irresponsible itself.Seeing others less fortunate than me always reminds me to take action. Usually that involves stroking out a check to one of the charities I trust to help the homeless. I decide how much I want to (and can afford) to give, then I double that amount.
No, I don’t go cold when I see this. I get frustrated and sad over it at times, but I do what I can do.
I have always wondered about this. I’m one of the people who was considered a “treatment failure” by the mental health system. The only real solution they had for me was heavily sedating drugs. I later learned this isn’t uncommon for people with childhood trauma; a lot of professionals just don’t really know what to do. You end up with a pile of diagnoses and not much else. The standard treatments for depression or anxiety don’t really help.The common denominators were mental illness or past sexual and or physical abuse that was traumatic enough to alter their lives forever. Because i truly got to love them the way I love my own family it was amazing how they would open up to me when I would spend time with each one individually. I could then see the person God sees, that is His children, although very damaged and considered worthless by most of society I could see them as in their childhood, still with innocence. When you see them that way it is a game changer.
“If a man will not work, neither let him eat.” It’s actually is Scripture.If the homeless can work at all, they should be afforded the opportunity to choose so, and if they choose not to work and they could, then so be it.
Homeless people need a lot of help to get work. Try applying for a job if you have no address for the employer to write to. Try working if you have to sleep in a doorway or car park.If the homeless can work at all, they should be afforded the opportunity to choose so,
It’s a window of opportunity to be a Saint…the Devil can’t stand to see you do one tiny little good deed for God.When I see all the homeless people in parks and with signs. I go cold now .
how about you?
I just turn my eye’s away.
Then when the news shows LA. And San Fransisco. Its out of control
@Eric_HyomAnyone who has a mortgage or pays rent, is only about three months away from being made homeless. It only takes an accident, being made redundant, or a break down in a relationship so you can’t afford the payments on your own.
Everyone who has been made homeless has a story, it takes time to get to know them and their story. When you get to know them, then you can find ways to help and make a difference.