Where does a Christians sense of peace stem from?

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Looking at the lives of the saints it would seem that the greatest source of peace comes from knowing that one is loved by God and sharing that knowledge with the world. This does not mean the use of words, though at times they may be necessary. More often than not it is imperative that we show that love through our actions of peace.

In his rule for the Secular Franciscans or Brothers and Sisters of Penance as is the original name, Francis states that we (Christians) are to see every person as our brother and sister. We are to accept everyone as they are, not as we want them to be. We are to lead them to the peace and joy that Christ gives us through our example and when necessary use words. Judging from his own life, we observe that he only used words to preach when he had to do so. What made him such a charismatic preacher were not his sermons, but his life. He embraced the saint and the sinner with the same love.

Another charismatic man who can teach us a great deal about peace is Vincent de Paul. Vincent is a very interesting man, because he had no patience for nonsense. It bothered him when people came to him with silly questions that did nothing to improve the lot of the poor on the streets of Paris. It bothered him when Christians were more concerned about their own “stuff” than showing the charity of Christ for the sick and poor or the orphans in Paris. He found peace and promoted peace through charity. In his letters to Louise de Marillac, the first Daughter of Charity, he constantly repeats the same theme as Francis of Assisi, humility and charity.

Then we have a saint like Elizabeth Ann Seton, the mother of five children who gave up everything to serve the poor. She even sacrificed her children’s comfort for the sake of the poor. She became one of them and through her example led her children to embrace the poverty of Christ. Two of her daughters ended up giving their lives for the poor. Anina died as a Sister of Charity and Catherine as a Sister of Mercy. Her youngest died of some rare bone disease as a child. Yet, Elizabeth could not find it in her heart to feel anything but peace. This does not mean that she did not feel the loss like any other mother. She buried two of her daughters and a husband. Loss and pain were part of her journey. But the most beautiful fact about her life was that loss and pain did not take away her peace. She was completely confident that God’s will was done as long as she remained a daughter of the Church as Vincent had written to Louise de Marillac and as Francis of Assisi had written almost 600 years before her.

Our peace comes from harmony with God. Our harmony with God comes from living in harmony with all people and every creature. Our mission is not to change the world, but to seek out ways to unite those around us. If each of us works on his corner of the world, then the world will be transformed. This peace can be taken from us when we bite more than we can chew. Often we want to change the entire world or the entire Church. No one can do this single handed. Each of us has his mission in his given circumstance. Our efforts must focus there.

What we can learn from Francis, Vincent and Elizabeth is to avoid nonsense preoccupations and to avoid the temptation to become the saviours of humanity. These great men and women worked on their souls and shared their light and joy with those around them. The rest happened through the grace of God. This brought them to the peace that only Christ could give, even when they suffered human losses and even serious health problems that eventually killed them.

Fraternally,.

JR 🙂
Just what my heart needs to here or to read, thank you thank you thank you.
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Our mission is not to change the world, but to seek out ways to unite those around us. If each of us works on his corner of the world, then the world will be transformed. This peace can be taken from us when we bite more than we can chew. Often we want to change the entire world or the entire Church. No one can do this single handed. Each of us has his mission in his given circumstance. Our efforts must focus there.
What we can learn from Francis, Vincent and Elizabeth is to avoid nonsense preoccupations and to avoid the temptation to become the saviours of humanity. These great men and women worked on their souls and shared their light and joy with those around them. The rest happened through the grace of God.
That is truly awesome 👍 Nonsense preoccupations… We can’t expect the world to change unless we show the reasons why it should, and that can only be done by giving them Christ - showing them Christ - being Christ-like to others in our little corner of the world…
 
That is truly awesome 👍 Nonsense preoccupations… We can’t expect the world to change unless we show the reasons why it should, and that can only be done by giving them Christ - showing them Christ - being Christ-like to others in our little corner of the world…
Sometimes we want to harvest before we plant a seed. This does not work.

Fraternally,

JR 🙂
 
Hi Sam,
I hope someday you’ll get to know it on more than a theoretical level – for it really is true in practice. It doesn’t happen automatically tho. One has to put in the spiritual effort of loving and trusting God to that degree; to “work” at activating that trust when troubles come (since fear,pain, anger, etc are often/usually our initial human reaction).

God bless,
Nita
This is very well said.

I struggled mightily with anxiety and the idea of peace for several years, and just could not understand why I didn’t have it. In the end, it all boiled down to making a total commitment to God.

Consider the classic Philippians 6 anxiety verses posted above:
6 Have no anxiety at all, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, make your requests known to God.
7 Then the peace of God that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.
Note that to get peace here, you need to (a) have no anxieties, and (b) make your requests known to God.

How does one “have no anxieties”? 1 Peter 5 gives us a clue:
6 So humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time.
7 Cast all your worries upon him because he cares for you.
Humble yourself under God’s mighty hand, and cast all worries upon him, because he cares for me.

In my personal experience, there was a huge gap between understanding these words of Scripture regarding anxiety and knowing how to put them into practice. In the end, it all depended on giving myself over completely to God, and trusting my life to Him. I told him I wasn’t afraid anymore of what I might lose or give up by following Him, and I prayed for him to increase my faith and build me up to do whatever he wanted me to do.

In my case, that’s how “Humble yourself under God’s mighty hand” played out.

If you can get there – completely trusting in God, and knowing that in the end, he will look out for you – you have the antidote for anxiety. For if we are secure in that knowledge, we can come to God in confidence, put whatever is bothering us to Him, and know with certainty that it will all be OK.

Now … such trust is built over time. In the end you build it by EXPERIENCE. So many people don’t get this – ultimately our faith is built on our experiences with God. So how does one get to casting our worries to God, so that we have no anxieties of our own?

Everyone’s individual answer is different, but in my case, I started keeping track of my anxieties. I made an excel sheet, and every time I worried about something, I wrote it down. I also kept track of whether or not I could do anything about the situation, and I kept track of the end result (which was a yes/no answer to “did I need to worry”). After a few months I had a list of over 100 items that I was worried about, and had verified for myself that I hadn’t needed to worry about any of them. As Matthew 6:27 says:
Can any of you by worrying add a single moment to your life-span?
That’s how I built my trust. It might be different for someone else, but I had to work for it.

So how does it play now? I have felt the peace of God, that transcends all understanding. When I am in worry, I immediately pass it on to God. Sometimes that takes a lot of prayer, or several different prayers, and even a Rosary or two. But I know that if I fully give it away, peace will come. And it ALWAYS does.

I disagree with the post above that we won’t know peace until we’re in heaven. Peace on earth is achievable. We can have it, and God holds it out there for us. But like so many things in the spiritual maturation process, we have to choose to get it ourselves. God will not force it upon us.

I hope this helps. My answer is so wordy because I know this problem so well, and I’ve had to work very hard to get to the answer. Hopefully by sharing I can lighten someone else’s load.
 
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