… But I think the issue here is that sometimes, the way we develop our language and philosophical system to understand things makes it impossible to *not *be consistent from the past. As in, even if there were reasons to think, say, lying were sometimes not inherently evil, current theological frameworks prevent us from seeing that to be so.
I don’t know why Bookcat replied like that.
You yourself gave an example, of Nazis being sent away from relatives of some of my Jewish ancestors.
One of the problems you should be asking about is not “current theological frameworks”, but that of probably rather vocal, moralising people that you know.
In relation to your other examples of sexual morality, God sees the hearts but humans see acts (if allowed to). Therefore the act is a piece of evidence that points in some degree in the direction of what is in a heart. But we don’t know the full picture so we don’t know in what degree. In the charismatic movement are tales of a spiritual gift of discernment operating when appropriate.
There is also the crucial point that some acts are disordered and degree of sin depends on many other factors. Some acts do point to the fact that a heart in is a frightful mess.
It’s absolutely vital to think out why we want to know all this about someone. Are we wanting to prove ourselves superior, mark them down and put pressure on them, or are we genuinely called on to give constructive guidance, or whatever.
In many catholic circles is a general spirit of casuistry and guilt-finding towards those with more overt “naff” behaviours, by implication portraying faction formers and blame givers as morally superior.
I mention these things because I am addressing the emotional background to your question stemming from the atmosphere you live in.
Factually, conduct comprises acts. You aren’t in a position to know anyone’s intentions until it’s too late. The expert viewpoints quoted in other responses are adding solidity to all this.
The kind of lie you mention is a different kind of case from cases of sexual morality. You don’t mention the lie of a politician or an advertiser.
Some pastors have got congregation members to have sex claiming it was an act of kindness, or teachers their students, with the same intentions!
Intentions look different sometimes, from different spots.
Tell us why you at the moment think you do, or do not, want morality held before you, and allow that you haven’t got to the bottom of the subject yet. Even if it’s not always bent into a tool to get at you, you may have had it drummed into you that it is.
Our view of how we feel about values should develop as we become autonomous and relinquish apron-strings. We must dig and delve to find out the true destiny of the Church and get free enough to mature and give up our lives for others in some way.
Jesus and the Apostles get left out of the picture when moralising is going on.
Who’s got a hold on you, when and where? What spirit will possess you and hold you firm for that?
If we want to commit ourselves to an attitude of legalism, what’s the pay-off? You might think that you are the opposite of that but you aren’t.