And your answer really shows what your definition of mortal sin is, that is a rejection of God and his salvation. But do people actually consciously reject God and his salvation when they say practice contraception? Do they consciously reject God and his plan for their salvation when they miss mass on Sunday? This is why this concept is very subjective to me.
You ask if people (and I presume you mean catholics) are consciously rejecting God when they commit these acts. Let me turn the question around just a little bit and ask whether these people are consciously accepting God in their lives?
God must not play “second fiddle” to anything in our lives and in our hearts.
I am not rejecting the teaching as Ron hinted at I am trying to understand what that teaching means in the light of scripture and truth. If something is so important that it would send one to hell even after they have accepted God’s grace then it must be understood.
You seem to be a very thoughtful person and you are right, these are important things to understand. The real issue though is to get to understand the underlying core of why something is a Mortal sin, what common denominator is there that creates this deadly seperation between us and God.
I’m trying to understand the bigger picture. You see I believe in God’s grace and his love. I believe that God doesn’t want anyone to go to hell and that he has a plan for our salvation. Does he drop his plan of salvation for us when we sin? How does mortal sin fit in with God’s plan for our salvation?
God’s plan for our salvation is a co-operative one. Our free will is important in it. Therefore God has laid before us clear choices Love and Live - Or hate and die. It is then up to us to make the choice. Thus it is not God who drops His plan for salvation but we who reject it.
Mortal sin is clearly defined by Christ when He refers to blaspheming against the Holy Spirit. It is the one sin that cannot be forgiven. But does this refer strictly to “cussing out God”? Not at all. It refers to an obstinate refusal to accept God’s Will in our lives. An embracing, on our part, of the evils of this world in defiance of God’s Love for us. If we truly Loved God as we should, then we simply could not blaspheme against Him either by word or action. We could not act in any way that is offensive to God - that is - contrary to the “Law of Love”.
It would make sense to me James if your definition is correct since if we reject forgiveness then how can we be forgiven. Then the focus is not so much on the actual sin itself but on a refusal to repent and be forgiven. But I am not so sure that is what some are claiming is the definition of mortal sin.
Well I must say that I have not cerefully read through all of the posts here and I realize that everyone has slightly different takes on things and also that different people are at different points in their spiritual journey. That may account for some of the variances in definitions.
For myself, I try to look for the “Root Cause”, possibly the result of my many years in Quality Control. In considering the issue of Mortal sin, as it is presented in the Catachism and discussed here, it becomes obvious to me that the “Root Cause” of any mortal sin is the rejection of God, or conversely, the lack of true acceptance of God, God’s Grace, and God’s salvation.
God has built His new covenent with us on the foundations of the first covenent with Adam and Eve. That foundation is Love. Christ teaches this when He defines the two greatest commandments - Love of God and Love of neighbor.
Concentrate on this - Love God with all of your self - Your mind, Your heart, Your being. Then Love your neighbor as you Love yourself - For the Love of God.
Do this and you can’t go far wrong.
Do this and you will never miss a Sunday mass for your most ardent desire will not be to sleep in, but will be to worship God in His house and receive Him into yourself.
Do this and you will not practice contraception for your most ardent desire will not be to prevent conception or kill the fertized egg, but hold yourself pure and properly ordered in your desires.
The Bottom Line is that if we Love God as we should then we will not wish to offend Him in any way either large or small. A willingness of Offend God means that we do not Love Him as we should. If we concentrate on this, then we can easily avoid mortal sin.
Peace
James