It doesn’t seem right to ignore 99.999% of a person’s life when determining his salvation and to base his eternal salvation only and exclusively on 0.001% of his life, i.e., his state at the last minute innediately before his death.
It is the state “at death” not a minute before.
A minute before can hold much grace and indeed salvation…
One must remember what a* mortal sin** is. * With a mortal sin there is deliberate choice of the gravely sinful matter - with full knowledge and complete consent. It his choice that he makes freely and knowingly.
God is not out to get us…well actually he is out to “get us” (the Shepherd desires his sheep to come home) to give us life and to give us that life eternally…
Jesus tells us we
know not the day or hour……
Yes life is a serious path. And yes we are to as Jesus says “watch”.
Such is not to lead to undue fear - certainly not.
We know our Good Shepherd and his desire for our salvation.
And remember a mortal sin is a very particular thing - where there is grave matter, full knowledge and deliberate consent. We knowingly and willing choose something grave.
For a Catholic to go to hell - he who has been baptized into Christ -given true life in him –
-“a willful turning away from God (a mortal sin) is necessary, and persistence in it until the end” (CCC 1037).
scborromeo.org/ccc/ccc_toc.htm
Can it happen that a person who has lived far away from God ( a living hell) has the grace and confession prior to death and enters into life? Yes by the great mercy of God.
Can it happen that a person commits a mortal sin and his life ends with him away from God? Yes. Can it also happen that his life lived in communion with God will incline him quickly to receive the grace of perfect contrition (and remember God can reach us with mercy in ways others do not see) prior to death? Yes. (be one ought not to presume…but rather “watch” for we know not the day or hour).
Let us always live in the friendship with Christ and if one does fall into a mortal sin - seek the grace of perfect contrition (which need not involve any emotion by the way) and confession quickly.
Let us live in Christ - in him is true life. He is our hope. He is our life. Remaining in him in grace -no one can separate us from him. Let us have confidence and trust in his love for us and his desire that we have that
true life.
"Moreover, our radical belonging to Christ and the fact that “we are in him” must imbue in us an attitude of total trust and immense joy. In short, we must indeed exclaim with St Paul: “If God is for us, who is against us?” (Rom 8: 31). And the reply is that nothing and no one “will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Rom 8: 39). Our Christian life, therefore, stands on the soundest and safest rock one can imagine. And from it we draw all our energy, precisely as the Apostle wrote: “I can do all things in him who strengthens me” (Phil 4: 13).
Therefore, let us face our life with its joys and sorrows supported by these great sentiments that Paul offers to us. By having an experience of them we will realize how true are the words the Apostle himself wrote: “I know whom I have believed, and I am sure that he is able to guard until that Day what has been entrusted to me”; in other words, until the Day (II Tm 1: 12) of our definitive meeting with Christ the Judge, Saviour of the world and our Saviour. "
~ Pope Benedict XVI
w2.vatican.va/content/benedict-xvi/en/audiences/2006/documents/hf_ben-xvi_aud_20061108.html