And this is why I believe that psychologists and psychiatrists do a disservice to people who suffer from SSA when they claim that homosexuality is not a disorder. I suffer from mild bipolar disorder. Is there a “cure” for my disorder? Sadly, no. Should I then have been told I was perfectly normal and encouraged to act on my manic and depressive urges? Of course not. What got me to where I am today is that I was taught to understand and manage my swings, combined with appropriate stabilizers to give me the space to learn it properly. In time, I weaned myself off of the stabilizers, and can now live a normal, healthy life without them because I can recognize when my disorder is driving me in a particular direction and act accordingly. When manic, I do chores or play music instead of emptying my bank account, doing drugs, and having as much sexual intercourse as possible. When depressed, I draw, paint, take photos, or go for a hike instead of sitting in a darkened room contemplating ways I could end my life. It isn’t easy, but it is possible, and it does work.