this is what I understood from my Cistercian friends. I was surprised to see so many of the brothers vested as priests at Mass. When I asked about it, one of the Brothers said, “We don’t come here to be priests. We are brothers first.”
As a member of the laity, I have a hard time thinking this way.
-Tim-
LOL
The laity can often be more clerical than the clergy. There is a tendency to think that a priest is a priest is a priest.
That’s not true. A priest is a priest. That part is true.
Most priests are secular men. They either belong to a diocese or to a society of secular priests. They will present themselves as priests. That’s what God called them to be.
Then you have the entire Benedictine family and the Franciscan family. The Cistercians are part of the Benedictine Family.
We don’t recruit men to be priests. We have a surplus of priests. We only need enough priests to take care of the religious house. One per house would be fine with us. That’s why the Cistercian brother responded as he did.
We don’t become Benedictines or Franciscans to be priests. We don’t even recruit for the priesthood. If you examine our vocation literature, the information is all about the spirituality and way of life, not the ministries. The priesthood is one of many ministries that a monk or a friar does.
Cistercians and Franciscans are very interesting, because we actually have some brother priests who have only celebrated mass and heard confessions. They have never celebrated other sacraments. They wouldn’t recognize a Baptismal font if they fell into it. If you’re a brother in a monastery, you spend you life at prayer and doing manual labor. If you’re a brother in a friary,you can be a pastor or you can be the cook at a soup kitchen.
We have a brother-priest in my community who has always been a Go-to-Guy. He helps out at a parish on Saturdays and Sundays. Monday through Friday, he spends pulling things apart and putting them back together to make them work. He’s one of the most talented people I know.
Then we have non-ordained brothers who are theologians who do spiritual direction, retreats, write, teach theology, do marriage counseling and sacramental preparation, because we’re don’t know how to change the tire on car.
If you ask one of these brothers for a jack, they go down the street and bring back the neighbor named John.
In these communities, the priesthood is accidental. It’s not essential to their way of life. They only need priests for mass, confession and last rites. With the friars, it’s a little different, because you can always assign a brother priest to posts where they can celebrate other sacraments and do other things that priests do, as long as it does not get in the way of being a religious.
It’s very hard for these brothers. They have to watch the line they walk.
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF
