Thank you.
Yes, I’m working on some of that now. The schoolwork is easy. The difficulty with the cultural stuff is harder.
You hit that nail on the head! But God always leads us in triumph. If we are fervently seeking His will for us, and studying to show ourselves approved unto God, then He will make a way for us. For some of us, our local parish is not the place, but there are other areas in the diocese where we can offer our gifts. What is important is that we are seeking to learn the nature of our gifts and calling, and to put them to the service of Christ the Lord.
Eph 4:11-16
11 And his gifts were that some should be apostles, some prophets, some evangelists, some pastors and teachers, 12 to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ, 13 until we all attain to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to mature manhood, to the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ; 14 so that we may no longer be children, tossed to and fro and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the cunning of men, by their craftiness in deceitful wiles. 15 Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ, 16 from whom the whole body, joined and knit together by every joint with which it is supplied, when each part is working properly, makes bodily growth and upbuilds itself in love.
God has given each of us a gift that is to function to build up the Body in Love. It is incumbent upon is to nurture this gift (unwrap it, and put it to use). When the ecclesial authorities in the parish are not helping the faithful to do this, it is much more of a challenge.
The ordained are there to equip the saints, but it is the saints who are the ones to do the work of the ministry. Unfortunately the “culture” has been for the saints to sit back, and expect the ordained to do all the work of the ministry. This has caused overworked priests, and lazy parishioners. The best way to work against this is to begin with ourselves, make sure we are well equipped, then move into our role to assist the ordained in equipping the saints for the work of the ministry.