I used to have the hardest time explaining this to my Baptist friends. They would say things like “Catholics think all they have to do is go to confession and they are forgiven”.
From what I learned in RCIA, a priest does not give forgiveness of sins, but only pronounces it. We learned that a priest may pronounce a sin forgiven, but that only God knows someone’s heart. So he discouraged lying during confession, because if you don’t meet the requirements, then despite having a priest “forgive” your sins, they will not be forgiven. I do not have the misconception that the majority of Catholics believe this. I have been questioning what a few folks on here have been saying. I’ll just look to the Catechism and ignore Catholics who dispute it from here on out.
I just couldn’t get through to them. We are only required to confess mortal sins (degrees of seriousness of sins was another problem).
Catholics sometimes go to confession even when they are not required to (blank stares).
Confession is a good thing. Keeping secrets all bottled up isn’t healthy. And it is a good thing to receive spiritual counsel from someone who has devoted their lives to it.
I would ask which is more difficult, secretly confessing your sins to God or confessing to God and your pastor?
I
openly confess my sins to God. I confess my sins to others, as well. I have never formally confessed to a priest, although I have opened my heart in discussion with my old pastor.
And I have to say, that it seems more than wrong to hear someone refer to confessing to our Lord as “secretly confessing”. Of all in the world, it is what He says that matters most to me.
If I cannot be open with Him, if I have to have a person mediate, then…what in the world is Christ for? Christ alone acts as my High Priest. I do not need a Catholic priest to **give **me forgiveness. Christ assures me of that, and lays out the way to eternal life.
Priests are good, we need pastors…but God alone forgives sins. In the Scriptures, people believed that Christ blasphemed, because he forgave sins. They said, who forgives sins but God alone? I say it here. Chirst forgave sins because He was God. Anyone else claiming more than mearly pronouning God’s sins, is claiming somewhat more than they should. God alone does this.