I do not agree with the premise that shrines are meant only for the divine.
Your choice. Problem is, I do, (and so does the dictionary.) However, because of the definition of ‘shrine’ I use, if I say that we don’t have any in our homes, you will need to accept that.
Catholics do not limit veneration in such a way that a venerable grandma would be excluded.
Catholics may not. It seems to me that the definitions of dulia, hyper-dulia and latria (which are tightly associated with veneration) do so limit it, but what Catholics do is entirely up to them. However, we aren’t talking about what Catholics do. We’re talking about what Mormons do, and we do not venerate Grandma. In fact, we have no official, or traditional, sense of dulia and hyper-dulia. There is the worship we owe God through His Son Jesus Christ…and everything/everyone else gets something different. Honor and respect, yes. Veneration? No.
It is a different definition. On our side we have the dictionary, the official statements by different religious leaders (including yours) and what we actually do. On yours you have a broader interpretation of the word. If we AGREED with your definition, then yes, we have shrines and venerate things and people. Since we do NOT agree with your definition, and we ARE talking about what WE do, not what you think we do, then no, we don’t have shrines or venerate things and people, other than God…and we don’t have shrines to God in our homes, either, unless the entire home is meant to be one.
There is a qualitative difference between any dulia (love and respect for creatures) and latria (love and respect for God). There is no qualitative difference between my reverence for good parents and my reverence for the saints. Our views are not so restrictive as you seem to think they are.
Well, I can only go by what I read in the literature, aspirant. If you tell me that for Catholics dulia applies to good parents equally with saints, then it does. For us, however, it’s a big side step. We reserve reverence for God and the places and times we worship Him. Honor and respect are given to good parents and others to whom we wish to give it, and it’s not the same thing.
I dunno, perhaps it’s a product of our disparate world views. It’s quite a dichotomy you are pointing out here; for us it is quite literally God—and everything else. There is no range of creations that have men here, angels there, saints somewhere else–a range of different creations and accomplishments that set God’s creations apart from one another, and thus demand different treatments according to class, as it seems to be for you.
On the other hand, because of this range, (“class assignments” isn’t quite right but I can’t think of another way to put it, so let’s just go with that…) you have a system of respect and veneration that flows from one group to another. You talk about a qualitative difference between ‘dulia’ and ‘latria…’ and there may be. You also talk about there not being a qualitative difference between any sort of dulia. OK, I see that; It doesn’t change in quality so much as it does in intensity; a little on this end, for the couch who helped you gain confidence in yourself, so that you keep his picture with your first tennis trophy, to the deep and abiding reverence you have for Mary the mother of God at the other end (that is, hyper-dulia but still not latria). At least, that’s the impression I’m getting with this idea being presented to me about what shrines and reverence are, by you and others here. It seems like a seamless spectrum of respect and worship that is shared by everybody to some respect or other. Any lines drawn seem, at least by you, to be between levels of quantity, not quality.
The dichotomy lies, I think, in the way Mormon thought is the polar opposite of this idea. That is, we do NOT divide God’s creations up the way you do; we do not believe in a separate class of beings called ‘angels,’ and another called ‘seraphim,’ and a third called “Saints,” and yet another called ‘devils.’ (and yes, I KNOW that saints are people, and not created separately. Let it be for the purpose of this.

) We believe that all of them are—us. God’s literal children. His offspring. Since we believe that, wouldn’t it seem to make more sense that we would have this seamless spectrum of veneration that goes from the least of us to the greatest? (shrug) in one sense, I suppose, it would. However, we do not. We reserve all veneration for God alone, in the sense of ‘type’ that I am getting from you. We just don’t grok ‘dulia.’ We honor one another, and respect each other and give greater honor and respect to those we think the most of, but for us, at least, there isn’t just a difference of degree between honor, respect, and veneration. It is a difference of TYPE. 'honor" is not the same thing as ‘veneration.’
I’m certain that you will find a LOT of flaws in this argument, and will want to pick it apart because you think I’m wrong about this thing or that, and you might be right about all of it. The problem is, it comes down to differences of definition. You have the right to define words and use them as you wish. So if you want to continue to think we have shrines and venerate grandma, I can’t stop you, and it looks as if according to your definition of both words, we do.
However, we do not use those definitions, and according to the definitions of both words that WE use (and you will find the definitions we use in the dictionary) we do not use shrines, we don’t venerate people and we worship only God the Father through His Son Jesus Christ. It would be very arrogant of me to insist that you use my definition of these words in terms of what YOU do. Please do not insist that I agree that I have shrines and venerate Grandma because you define those terms differently than I do.