Seconding, thirding, what others have said: you don’t smoke marijuana
except to get high. You can have a drink or two and not feel it.
In relation to this thread, I wonder if anyone else listens to Michael Medved. Just yesterday, he was talking about marijuana and pointing out that callers who regularly use pot all tend to have the same sloooow sort of speech patterns, like they’re still fl–ooaa–ting peacefully somewhere, with a lot of pauses and ‘ums,’ and difficulty putting together a logical thought. I didn’t hear the actual montage, but he mentioned he’d put one together, of a number of pot-smoking callers, in which you can hear this. I hear these callers, and there is without a doubt a strong pattern. It would appear the marijuans IS having permanent, long-term affects, as another poster has already mentioned.
Another thought: there’s a reason for the stereotype of the 35 year old still living in his mother’s basement smoking pot.

Yes, yes, I am well aware that not everyone who smokes pot lives in their mother’s basement. That’s why it’s a generalization. But you simply don’t hear about people living in their mother’s basements who enjoy a glass of wine with dinner on occasion!