Why are so many girls lesbian or bisexual? (Girls today are three times more likely than boys to be non-heterosexual. Why?)

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Is same sex attraction me thinking Jessica Simpson is absolutely beautiful? Really, I think she is totally underestimated.

I think you hit on something…are kids confusing an aesthetic beauty thing for sexual attraction???

I find women so much more attractive than men. Does that make any sense???
Makes perfect sense to ME! 😉

Men are generally shallow, vulgar, smell bad by the end of the day and grow sandpaper on their faces daily. I’m impressed that ANY of y’all will have us! 😃

I have never, however, found lesbian behavior to be “hot.” Can’t even understand the mindset where a guy would. 🤷
 
I DON’T KNOW! Looking back now honestly…I hope not…I was a follower at times, and seeked approval, so if she made the first move, who knows! All of the major influences in our children’s lives never make a stand against it…If they did, they would be deemed prejudice.
Prejudice according to whom? The unelected mainstream media? Did We The People vote on this and I somehow missed it? How do we know this isn’t driven by fear, hatred, and/or intolerance of the opposite sex?
 
Is same sex attraction me thinking Jessica Simpson is absolutely beautiful? Really, I think she is totally underestimated.

I think you hit on something…are kids confusing an aesthetic beauty thing for sexual attraction???

I find women so much more attractive than men. Does that make any sense???
I think that it’s perfectly understandable to like women, admire women, think some are beautiful and, as a woman, to have crushes on them. That’s all they are–crushes. Women are capable of becoming very close to other women–but it’s not sexual. Women pour out their hearts to other women–men don’t do that with other men–they just do stuff with their male friends. I think that homosexuality is hard-wired, especially for men. Gays have said time and time again that they knew they were different from the time they were very young. For women, some are hard-wired–I think the minority–, others come to it after a failed marriage, maybe because they were gay. Hard to know. and no one really wants to find out–for one thing, it’s too hard. The areas of the brain involved in sexual identity are ancient and buried deep, hard to isolate and study.

I don’t think that anyone should get too concerned when their teenagers develop crushes and even have some same-sex experimentation. A lot of research has been done on this sort of thing and most of it is transient. To make a big deal of it may impair communication when the real thing comes along, plus other big issues–drugs and alcohol.
 
But I have to wonder: Are there so many girl-girl couples out there because that’s truly who they are - or because the guys are such losers?
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It’s because secular guys are such loosers and secular society has taught them not consider men of faith.
 
Dr. Leonard Sax asks an interesting question in the 4/3 issue of Psychology Today:
You’ve probably heard about Constance McMillen by now. She’s the openly-gay high school senior who wanted to take her girlfriend to the high school prom at Itawamba High School in northern Mississippi. The principal told the girls that all prom couples have to be boy-girl. Ms. McMillen called the ACLU, which threatened the school with legal action. In response, the school board canceled the prom. The ACLU then asked U.S. District Court Judge Glen Davidson to intervene and reinstate the prom. The judge ruled that although the school had violated Ms. McMillen’s civil rights, he wouldn’t force them to hold a prom. On Friday, April 2, Ms. McMillen attended an alternative prom at the Fulton County Country Club. According to the Associated Press, her girlfriend’s parents wouldn’t allow the 16-year-old girlfriend to go, so McMillen escorted another young woman instead. To make the story even worse, it turns out that the alternative prom at the Fulton County Country Club was a fake, with only seven kids attending, according to McMillen. The real prom, i.e. the prom which most of the seniors attended, was held at a still-undisclosed location, and McMillen wasn’t invited.

(snip)

But I have to wonder: Are there so many girl-girl couples out there because that’s truly who they are - or because the guys are such losers?
I encourage you to read the rest of the article. He talks about pressure from secular guys, the influence of pornography, and the like.
**Romans 1:22-27 **Professing to be wise, they became fools, 23 and exchanged the glory of the incorruptible God for an image in the form of corruptible man and of birds and four-footed animals and crawling creatures. 24 Therefore God gave them over in the lusts of their hearts to impurity, so that their bodies would be dishonored among them. 25 For they exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen. 26 For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural, 27 and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error.

When you need to know an answer to a question concerning ,orals; just let God tell you.
 
You know, I honestly don’t know why it is but I wonder if maybe it has to do with the use of contraceptives. I mean, by taking a contraceptive, you are ingesting artificial hormones into your body. This is bound to have some kind of effect on you other than the prevention of pregnancy.

I occasionally suffer from same-sex attraction myself. Thankfully, this attraction is only minuscule and it does not bother me a great deal. Usually when these temptations occur, I simply either ignore them or pray for them to end.
In a sense yes, contraceptives de-sacramentalize sex by removing the life giving aspect. Once you remove that for hetro-sex, then one starts wondering… How is homo-sex any different?
 
There is a huge stigma in society against gay men. Gay men are mocked, in some cases they have to fear violence, they are not considered “cool”, pornography featuring gay men is not widespread.

Contrast that with bisexual/gay women. It is considered cool, guys really like it and there is a lot of pornography dedicated to women having sex with women (pornography made for men rather than lesbians).

It’s not so surprising that more women would be willing to try being bisexual or lesbian than men would try to be gay.

There could also be a difference in biology that makes women more likely to be gay.

If I’m a man experiencing attraction to other men, I’d be inclined to suppress it for fear of social reprisal. If I’m a woman I might be inclined to explore it because society considers it acceptable and even cool.
 
I find women so much more attractive than men. Does that make any sense???
Have you ever noticed that artists are more likely to have an image of a nude female than a male? 😛 There have only been few male nude images that were well received (David, by Michelangelo being one of them)

Males look pretty… um… Odd when they are nude and not doing something that could be considered pornographic. :eek:
 
Have you ever noticed that artists are more likely to have an image of a nude female than a male? 😛 There have only been few male nude images that were well received (David, by Michelangelo being one of them)

Males look pretty… um… Odd when they are nude and not doing something that could be considered pornographic. :eek:
Well, as a guy, saying this isn’t really that odd, but, women are without a doubt much, much more beautiful than men. Guys usually have a very rough look to them, while girls always have a sleeker and smoother appearance, if that makes any sense.
 
Have you ever noticed that artists are more likely to have an image of a nude female than a male? 😛 There have only been few male nude images that were well received (David, by Michelangelo being one of them)

Males look pretty… um… Odd when they are nude and not doing something that could be considered pornographic. :eek:
Well, as a guy, saying this isn’t really that odd, but, women are without a doubt much, much more beautiful than men. Guys usually have a very rough look to them, while girls always have a sleeker and smoother appearance, if that makes any sense.
Artists are more likely to draw nude women because historically more artists have been male.

I love the way men look 😛 I don’t think it’s odd, it’s very attractive.
 
Women were intented to serve as a gift to man by God. Anyone knows that if you want to get to man, attack his wife. Nothing will hurt him or damage him more than watching his beloved suffer. I believe that Satan is launching a full-out attack on women. He is attacking women in every facet that makes them what they are. By doing this, he is sure to destory the sacredness of women, and bring men to their knees in pain for their beloved wives, mothers, and daughters.

Women are being attacked on every level. In social situations (one only needs to watch a movie) women are seen as “cool” or “fun” if they are willing to conduct themselves in a debasing way. They need to be willing to take their clothes off, dress provocatively, “put out,” and all the while not expect any attachment with the male she does this for. Women are used in advertising and treated as objects to put clothes on to try to sell them, and used to boost ratings. They are treated as prostitues (giving their body for money) even if they aren’t selling literal sex. There is no interest in the woman, only how the clothes look on her. This leads high instances of eating disorders in women, and extreme pressure to maintain a supermodel appearance and a feeling of worthlessness if they don’t reach that. Then there are things such as abortion which calls a woman to destroy her own children in the same of sexual pleasure. Today’s woman is brutalized, broken, and abused. A far cry from the gift that she was intended to be, and far from valued as such. On top of all this, we have men that find a sexy woman as the only thing worth valuing. This is leading women to do all they can for the affection of men, including agreeing to the debasement in hopes of being valued. You see men who call lesbianism “hot” so women in desperation are finding themselves pulled to that. It’s no shock that they later go on to stay this way.

Women are trying so hard to be desireable to men, and colletively are being told that unless you’re a size 4, C cup, trashy girl, willing to satisfy a man in any way he desires without attaching yourself to him, and even get with another girl just to be “hot” you are not WORTH anything, and not desireable. It’s not man’s fault, it’s an all-out attack on both sexes. Until we BOTH stand up and start saying “no!” it won’t get any better. Sadly, only the healing Christ brings is what is needed, and people are rejecting that more and more these days.
 
Women were intented to serve as a gift to man by God. Anyone knows that if you want to get to man, attack his wife. Nothing will hurt him or damage him more than watching his beloved suffer. I believe that Satan is launching a full-out attack on women. He is attacking women in every facet that makes them what they are. By doing this, he is sure to destory the sacredness of women, and bring men to their knees in pain for their beloved wives, mothers, and daughters.

Women are being attacked on every level. In social situations (one only needs to watch a movie) women are seen as “cool” or “fun” if they are willing to conduct themselves in a debasing way. They need to be willing to take their clothes off, dress provocatively, “put out,” and all the while not expect any attachment with the male she does this for. Women are used in advertising and treated as objects to put clothes on to try to sell them, and used to boost ratings. They are treated as prostitues (giving their body for money) even if they aren’t selling literal sex. There is no interest in the woman, only how the clothes look on her. This leads high instances of eating disorders in women, and extreme pressure to maintain a supermodel appearance and a feeling of worthlessness if they don’t reach that. Then there are things such as abortion which calls a woman to destroy her own children in the same of sexual pleasure. Today’s woman is brutalized, broken, and abused. A far cry from the gift that she was intended to be, and far from valued as such. On top of all this, we have men that find a sexy woman as the only thing worth valuing. This is leading women to do all they can for the affection of men, including agreeing to the debasement in hopes of being valued. You see men who call lesbianism “hot” so women in desperation are finding themselves pulled to that. It’s no shock that they later go on to stay this way.

Women are trying so hard to be desireable to men, and colletively are being told that unless you’re a size 4, C cup, trashy girl, willing to satisfy a man in any way he desires without attaching yourself to him, and even get with another girl just to be “hot” you are not WORTH anything, and not desireable. It’s not man’s fault, it’s an all-out attack on both sexes. Until we BOTH stand up and start saying “no!” it won’t get any better. Sadly, only the healing Christ brings is what is needed, and people are rejecting that more and more these days.
It is called feminism.
 
It is called feminism.
No. Feminism is actually a violent reaction to the above situation. It is a reaction from very angry and frustrated women that push them the opposite direction from what I described, and many feel it is their job to wage war on the men that they feel caused all of this. Just another way that women are bieng attacked, and another way that Satan is winning the battle.
 
Well, as a guy, saying this isn’t really that odd, but, women are without a doubt much, much more beautiful than men. Guys usually have a very rough look to them, while girls always have a sleeker and smoother appearance, if that makes any sense.
Well, of course… it’s what I said! 😃
 
Artists are more likely to draw nude women because historically more artists have been male.

I love the way men look 😛 I don’t think it’s odd, it’s very attractive.
Yeah… but… in the nude??? :confused:

Have you seen a nude male? :o

I mean, really… a woman nude has an appearance that’s almost … lyrical

But a man nude? He has Mode A and Mode B… and one of them looks good nude… Powerful and Virile and Strong… and the other one looks… well… not. 😊

We’re not saying that men are unattractive, but for appearance’s sake, women have an appearance that is more satisfying visually than does a man.

But as the human goes, the woman is SUPPOSED to look good to attract the woman, while the man is supposed to look strong and powerful and virile to attract the woman.

(Um… Moderators: you don’t have to worry. I’m quitting <>)
 
A hard core feminist once said to me “Feminism the theory, lesbianism the practice”.
I’m a feminist, and it bothers me that what’s supposed to be a movement about equality and the respect of life has been twisted into… well… this.
It bothers me as well. But, lesbian feminism has always been within the feminist movement. The emphasis on lesbianism was just not as emphasized because the political aspect of equality was paramount for all of us. When that was accomplished, the rest followed…one of which is secular acceptance of the alternative lifestyle and woe to the voice that was contrary or critical because that would fall foul of “sisterhood”. 😦

The challenge to patriarchy was also twisted because now we have women who say that they don’t need men to have babies, call for ordination in the Catholic Church, etc.
 
Yeah… but… in the nude??? :confused:

Have you seen a nude male? :o

I mean, really… a woman nude has an appearance that’s almost … lyrical

But a man nude? He has Mode A and Mode B… and one of them looks good nude… Powerful and Virile and Strong… and the other one looks… well… not. 😊

We’re not saying that men are unattractive, but for appearance’s sake, women have an appearance that is more satisfying visually than does a man.

But as the human goes, the woman is SUPPOSED to look good to attract the woman, while the man is supposed to look strong and powerful and virile to attract the woman.

(Um… Moderators: you don’t have to worry. I’m quitting <>)
See, I have to disagree on this point. I mean, I see women naked all the time in the changing room at the gym. I see a naked woman all the time when I change. I have to be honest, I’d much rather look at my husband in the nude. IMHO (and it’s probably biased due to being madly and unapologetically in love with him) there is nothing that looks as good to me as my husband. Clothed or otherwise. When women are nude it’s just like “meh…” but when hubby is, it’s definatly NOT “meh…” heh 😊
 
IMHO (and it’s probably biased due to being madly and unapologetically in love with him) there is nothing that looks as good to me as my husband. Clothed or otherwise.
That is so sweeeeet! As much as I love my husband, I think I’d go blind if I looked at him without clothes on. He’s nearly 80. And, the funny thing is that…it’s mutual!!! 😃
 
Women were intented to serve as a gift to man by God. Anyone knows that if you want to get to man, attack his wife. Nothing will hurt him or damage him more than watching his beloved suffer. I believe that Satan is launching a full-out attack on women. He is attacking women in every facet that makes them what they are. By doing this, he is sure to destory the sacredness of women, and bring men to their knees in pain for their beloved wives, mothers, and daughters.

Women are being attacked on every level. In social situations (one only needs to watch a movie) women are seen as “cool” or “fun” if they are willing to conduct themselves in a debasing way. They need to be willing to take their clothes off, dress provocatively, “put out,” and all the while not expect any attachment with the male she does this for. Women are used in advertising and treated as objects to put clothes on to try to sell them, and used to boost ratings. They are treated as prostitues (giving their body for money) even if they aren’t selling literal sex. There is no interest in the woman, only how the clothes look on her. This leads high instances of eating disorders in women, and extreme pressure to maintain a supermodel appearance and a feeling of worthlessness if they don’t reach that. Then there are things such as abortion which calls a woman to destroy her own children in the same of sexual pleasure. Today’s woman is brutalized, broken, and abused. A far cry from the gift that she was intended to be, and far from valued as such. On top of all this, we have men that find a sexy woman as the only thing worth valuing. This is leading women to do all they can for the affection of men, including agreeing to the debasement in hopes of being valued. You see men who call lesbianism “hot” so women in desperation are finding themselves pulled to that. It’s no shock that they later go on to stay this way.

Women are trying so hard to be desireable to men, and colletively are being told that unless you’re a size 4, C cup, trashy girl, willing to satisfy a man in any way he desires without attaching yourself to him, and even get with another girl just to be “hot” you are not WORTH anything, and not desireable. It’s not man’s fault, it’s an all-out attack on both sexes. Until we BOTH stand up and start saying “no!” it won’t get any better. Sadly, only the healing Christ brings is what is needed, and people are rejecting that more and more these days.
What a powerful writing, and complete analysis of the situation as it is. Thanks so much for posting this.
 
Have you ever noticed that artists are more likely to have an image of a nude female than a male? 😛
As an artist myself, I’ll tell you the answer to that one - there are a lot more women than men who are both willing and able to stand there with no clothes on, without moving, for up to three hours, for $12.00 an hour. Of course, there are also a few men who can do this, and are willing to do it, so it’s not a completely barren wasteland, but the majority of people on the list of nude models-for-hire are women - mostly Moms who just want to make a bit of spending money on the side.
There have only been few male nude images that were well received (David, by Michelangelo being one of them)
As far as what gets into the art history books, that’s a fair point, but I’ve got several sketchbooks full of male nudes that look pretty good, if I do say so myself. (Mostly all the same three guys, unfortunately.) 😃
Males look pretty… um… Odd when they are nude and not doing something that could be considered pornographic. :eek:
:confused:

There are lots of perfectly chaste male hero poses to choose from 🤷
 
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