The real issue, regardless of which Patriarch the Holy Father is talking to, is the Papacy and the current power it possesses, power that is historically in dispute.
The vast majority of “traditional”/“semi-traditional” Roman Catholics will not accept anything less than the Pope of Rome maintaining the full power which he enjoys today.
The vast majority of Orthodox Christians will accept, at most, the Pope of Rome returning to pre-Schism status as First Among Equals.
Further, from what I have read here and on other legit sites, it seems as if Orthodox Christians might accept First Among Equal status in time, but should we come in to Communion with each other, the Pope would have to spend some time as just being “Equals” with the other Patriarchs and the EP would remain First Among Equals. Whether or not that would change in time would remain to be seen.
It is an impasse that may never be forded.** I am in general agreement with your assessment here.
On a personal level (speaking as Mike, not a representative member of the Orthodox church) I believe that the Latin Catholic church, and the Papal communion in general, is a valid Apostolic church, it simply has adopted some irregular ideas about religion. I do not see these as ultimately preventing the ultimate work of the church, that is saving souls for Christ. I still cross myself when I pass alongside a Latin Catholic church, and I belief the Holy Mysteries are truly present there.
Nonetheless, I am opposed to the idea that the bishop of Rome has some automatic right to take over the position and responsibilities of the 'first among equals" Patriarchate as soon as we have achieved some sort of intercommunion. I think it will have to earn it.
These things take time. We must first learn to cooperate closely in other ways, and the various factions of the Latin church would have to learn to accept the somewhat more limited role of the Pope among non-Latin Christians. This could take many generations and quite frankly might never be accepted by some.
Interestingly enough, the Latin Traditionalist community has already breached this subject due to it’s objections to the post V-II reforms of the liturgy. They have directly challenged the authority of the Papacy and the Vatican Curia to impose the “liturgical renewal” upon them, to the point of risking schism in some cases, and this has clearly been a living assessment of the dogma of Universal Jurisdiction.
The idea that there are true natural and automatic limits to the authority of the Pope (and the Curia by delegation) should therefore be understandable to at least some Latin Traditionalists.
Michael