I am a middle aged man and have been born and raised in a faithful Catholic family. I also have been faithful to what the Catholic Church believes and teaches to the best of my ability over the years. I have also studied what the Catholic Church believes and teaches and in theory I agree with everything that it teaches.
However, there is also an element of the Catholic Church that is quite troubling to me. Although the teachings appear sound to me, how the Catholic Church applies those teachings have been suspect. It is causing a sort of crisis of faith for me. Normally the best advice to be given would be to consult a parish priest or something to that effect. However, as a layperson, I am looking for a layperson’s perspective on how to reconcile the Church with it’s faulty members.
Layperson’s perspective:
- You put your pants on one leg at a time as well.
- You’re not morally perfect either
- You could be more charitable as well.
- You could be more forgiving too.
- You probably have no place to judge others simply because you PERCEIVE yourself to be a better catholic than them.
- As much as you judge how “good” of catholics they are simply because you think they’re morally at a different level than you, you’re the one who’s questioning the veracity of the church because of your personal judgement issues. That, in my opinion, makes you the catholic who needs more help.
- The church has its champions of the faith. It also has people who are just starting out on the moral path of growth. What you are saying is like walking into a hospital and crying out “I can’t be treated here, there are INJURED PEOPLE all around!” It makes no sense.
- God administers grace and growth. You can try to help by reaching out to others or even organizing opportunities for charity, but to supplant God’s role by rebuking others beyond your authority is dangerous and sinful. You can actually set people BACKWARDS in terms of their faith and moral development.
The Bible mentions something to the effect of ‘by their fruits you shall know them’. In my own life, having interacted with persons at my local parish and other parishes I have been associated with,*** there is an element of superiority by some***, whiners by others, and downright deceptiveness by a few as well.
People are sinners. I’ve highlighted the part of that statement that I think you should pay particular attention to…
With all this in mind, it has gotten me thinking as to how important it is for me to be a Catholic when the Catholic Church itself says that one does not need to be Catholic to be saved? Yes, the Church teaches that it is through the Church that non-Catholics can be saved. However, I wish the fruits of practicing Catholics would be clearer for me to discern if I am indeed in the true Church. (My side note: If you’re dissatisfied with the fruits of practicing catholics, make more fruits! And foster others to grow in charity as well!)
Could you all help me with some evidence that supports that the Catholic Church is far and away not only the best option for my salvation, but THE option for my salvation?
You are absolutely incorrect in thinking that one does not need to be catholic to be saved. Let me clarify: ONLY catholics will be saved, but by INVINCIBLE IGNORANCE some people are not members of the VISIBLE CHURCH, though they are catholic all the same in the eyes of God.
HERE is an article on the difference between invincible and vincible ignorance. Given the plethora of resources at the hands of a catholic with internet access today, do you really think that you’ll fall into the invincible ignorance category? That’s a serious question to weigh before you think you’re safe to jump out of the church.
I’ll leave you with a note on this subject from
Hebrews 6:
**4 ****For it is impossible in the case of those who have once been enlightened and tasted the heavenly gift
2 and shared in the holy Spirit ****5 ****and tasted the good word of God and the powers of the age to come,
3 ****6 ****and then have fallen away, to bring them to repentance again, since they are recrucifying the Son of God for themselves
4 and holding him up to contempt. **
Sounds like St Paul was pretty serious about the level of sin becoming an apostate entails…