Good Evening Charlemagne et al: The way I see it, there is no reason for anyone in this discussion to despair. The reason it appears as though prayers don’t get answered is simply this: Our lives are enmeshed with one another inextricably, and each action in one place causes a reaction in another place. Everything has to fit into the larger scheme. Minor things happening in one place affect larger things happening in another. Even when there is apparently no relation between one thing and another, there’s a relation. On a very simple scale, two of us can’t approach an intersection from different directions and both pray for a green light and get one. The way to get your prayers answered is to get your will in line with the Big Will. Find out what the Big Will wants and pray for that. Then you start getting your way, because it’s no longer your way. It’s no longer about you. Your wants and needs become entangled with the needs of the whole. There’s joy in it, let me tell you. It’s liberating. just If you can learn to ride the wave, things start to fall into place.