The only gospel that uses the word “first” is Mark. The rest just mention Mary Magdelene being at the tomb but do not use the word “first”, so all the gospels are not in agreement as to who was “first”, so no one is re-writing the NT if they believe that Jesus appeared to His Mother first. The gospels are not all clear as to who was first.
Well, yes, they ARE rewriting it, and spreading false information, if they say, without qualification, that Jesus visited his mother first. There is no evidence that he did. You, yourself, have stated that it’s not clear who was first, so you must know choosing Mary, his mother, is just speculation.
If someone qualifies the statement as their own personal opinion, that’s another thing altogether. Everyone has opinions, and they don’t have to agree, only be STATED as OPINION. I THINK Mary Magdalene was first. That is my opinion. It is also my OPINION that we’ll never know, except maybe in the afterlife, who was first.
There are people who read this forum who know little-to-nothing about Catholicism, but are curious. It’s just plain wrong to state something with no basis as a fact, without qualifiers, such as “this is my opinion.” If it’s an opinion, fine, this is a DB, and varying opinions will be expressed, but they should be labeled as opinion.