This still does not address the issue. How does a cathlic know if he-she is properly worshipping? Catholics pray to Mary and God,
If you mean “pray” in the sense of “ask,” then yes we do. We also ask things of friends and relatives on Earth, and that’s not taken as an act of worship.
If you mean “pray” in the sense of “talk in your head to someone who is not visible,” then yes, that too. But I do not see that “talking in your head to someone who is not visible” is inherently an act of worship. It’s the way we generally communicate with God, yes, but does that make the method itself worshipful in all situations?
Catholics praise Mary and God,
And we praise people we know or hear about, if they have done something praiseworthy. Again, not inherently an act of worship.
Catholics ask Mary and God for help.
And, again, we ask people we know on Earth for help with various matters. Not inherently worshipful behavior.
Now, what
is inherently worshipful, in Catholic thinking? The offer of sacrifice, in our case Christ’s sacrifice on the Cross. And in union with Christ himself, we offer that only to God, never to any lesser being.
There certainly is confusion on this.Many catholics claim they are not worshipping Mary yet when we look at the definition of dulia, hyperdulia, veneration etc we see that these are worship words.
As several others have tried to explain, there are multiple senses of the word “worship” at work here.
In the older, broader sense, “worship” could be used as a synonym for “respect” or “honor.” Hence, we have officials addressed as “Your Worship,” and one form of wedding ceremony in England includes the statement “with my body I thee worship,” spoken from bride to groom and vice versa. If you want to use “worship” in that sense, then yes, we worship (respect and honor) the saints. However, we use different Greek and Latin terms to differentiate that practice (dulia/hyperdulia or veneration) from the worship of God (latria or adoration).
In the more recent, narrower sense, “worship” includes only the level of honor and praise due to God Himself, and is inappropriately used with respect to any being not on the same plane as God. If you want to use
that sense of “worship,” which seems to be more common among non-Catholic Christians who object to Catholics’ apparent “worship” of the saints, then Catholics will naturally affirm that we are monotheists and thus worship no one but God. In the narrow sense, “worship” is equivalent to latria or adoration only, and does not include dulia/hyperdulia/veneration.
If other Christians can manage to distinguish between the worship of God and the honor they give to parents, pastors, and other people whom they respect, why is it so hard to believe that Catholics can distinguish between the worship of God and the honor due to the saints? Is it just because the saints are in Heaven and not visible to us, and therefore we have to communicate with them as we do God? Or is there some other reason?
Usagi