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Likewise, I did as well.Not only did I read through the flow chart, I printed it for further study and sharing.
Likewise, I did as well.Not only did I read through the flow chart, I printed it for further study and sharing.
You put something out there for people to read and ask comments for and it seems that every time someone responds you discount their responses. You asked a question and people are responding based on the information you gave them and their own personal experiences on their faith journey.One of the things that really saddens me is the gleeful, almost proud announcements of âmy parish has X Masses every Sunday!â Just how is a parish supposed to be a spiritual home when itâs run like a multi-shift factory?
I wonder where that model even came from? Must be from the reduced tithing and clerical vocations compared to other branches of Christianity.
How nice it would be is a great deal more and smaller Catholic parishes were sustainableâŚ
As I said, I bet less than 1/3 have even read the chart. Catholics just seem to want to get their opinions out there.You put something out there for people to read and ask comments for and it seems that every time someone responds you discount their responses. You asked a question and people are responding based on the information you gave them and their own personal experiences on their faith journey.
Itâs coming across that is not good enough for you. How exactly do you WANT people to respond?
I donât want to take the thread OT, but I want to point out, with great gentleness, that many many parents, Catholic and Protestant, raise their children well and do everything right to train them up in their faith, only to see their children utterly reject their faith when they grow up.I am starting a new type of Catholic. Its called a âhard coreâ Catholic. We start the Catechism in 1st grade, teach our children the Bible and to respect and enjoy other sects of the Catholic faith. We love our mass. We love our priest. Our School is ran by the Franciscans. I Love them. The children do the living rosary everyday, Mass twice a week, have a Catechism Bowl. Thats how you keep kids Catholic. Immerse them. Make religion 1st. Let them marinate in the Faith when they are little so they are prepared to be in the secular world. We need to stop crippling our children by telling them to be tolerant of non- tolerate people. We need to love and respect each other but NOT bow down to their secular ways or to their false Gods. We can make a difference. I can with my babies. Being a Catholic is wonderful and you can make learning the faith fun. Jesus said at the end of times his church would not be the biggest but it would not get swallowed up by the devil.![]()
I donât think that is an off-track remark at all. There are many things that impact the manner in which children embrace faith, not just parenting. They must be nurtured in many ways in order for faith to take root. Remember, it is a spiritual experience, thus a very personal one. That said, all of the adult influences matter - parent, priest, catechists, friends and neighbors. My parents and grandparents were very faithful and observant, yet it was my godfather and parish priest who were primary role models for me.I donât want to take the thread OT, but I want to point out, with great gentleness, that many many parents, Catholic and Protestant, raise their children well and do everything right to train them up in their faith, only to see their children utterly reject their faith when they grow up.
âThere are many things that impact the manner in which children embrace faith, not just parenting.â
And yet, you have not a shred of data to support such an idea. Iâll tell you what this âBoomerâ knows: you can find any kind of Catholic Parish you want if you live in an urban area: Totally Trad, Mid-Road, or Liberal Lad. Thereâs no THE Church anymore, not in America.This looks like a list made by a bunch of entitled Boomers infected by modern liberalism who are upset that the Church is actually, you know, a church, and not a touchy-feely seminar where they can feel self-actualized, or some such nonsense.
Iâm sorry, isnât that what the chart is? Your opinion, which you wanted to get out here?As I said, I bet less than 1/3 have even read the chart. Catholics just seem to want to get their opinions out there.
But the thread is doing just that. Itâs your chart. Now that you have other opinions, youâll see where there is variance from your hypotheses and can make the appropriate changes.It would have been nice if they would have critiqued the chart and gave (name removed by moderator)uts for changes, additions or deletions. One thing I am very certain of is that itâs a complex, multi-faceted problem.
I note you have repeated your remark about 1/3? Perhaps what you really want is to directly ask us ask us, âDid you read the chart?âAs I said, I bet less than 1/3 have even read the chart. Catholics just seem to want to get their opinions out there.
It would have been nice if they would have critiqued the chart and gave (name removed by moderator)uts for changes, additions or deletions. One thing I am very certain of is that itâs a complex, multi-faceted problem.
I think the chart is a fairly good and complete summary of the reasons why fewer Catholics attend Masses (in the U.S., anyway). More importantly, what the chart attempts to do is demonstrate that there isnât just âoneâ reason why Masses are less-attended in the U.S. This is a complex problem with many different angles.I note you have repeated your remark about 1/3? Perhaps what you really want is to directly ask us ask us, âDid you read the chart?â
Yes, I read each box on the chart and tried to see how each arrow pointed in order to understand the things you listed.
Then, after reading your chart, I commented as per your request by adding something that I didnât think was on your chart. Cat has also chimed in with remarks similar to my own (in her post about skating). Your chart has a different focus than Catâs and my remarks. However, your chart does include the box about laity having more leisure activities and also a box about insufficient catechesis (which affects peopleâs understanding of that the Church meets their fundamental needs). But I assume you are aware of what boxes you have on your chart.
I do think that perhaps for some people, I think less some rather than more some, when they walk into a reverent mass of a particular sort, they suddenly realize that they had a need all along, and here is an answer to the need, so in that sense your chart has my comment about people and needs. But your focus is different from how I view the problem. I tend to look at the problem through the eyes of ex-Catholics below 60 years of age, and also random people who are not really into any Christian group. These folks that I interact with might be influenced by things like there not being enough priests for there to be easy access to sacraments, and you have fewer priests listed on your chart, or perhaps influenced by the perception of corruption in the Church, which you also have on your chart in the form of the abuse scandal.
From your flowchart,Why do fewer Catholics attend Mass today has been a source of discussion at my parish of late. Obviously there is a great deal of disagreement. Two things that are clear to me is that there are many reasons and there are compounding reasons.
Here is my feeble attempt to think this through. What critical elements did I miss? One that I know is missing is that with fewer people attending Mass, both the Church and the all the faithful of the Church are deprived of the fruits of much prayer. I just wasnât sure how to work that in.
Your comments are welcomed.
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I agree that the chart is a good way to graphically show the complexity of the problem and that many factors are involved and interrelated.I think the chart is a fairly good and complete summary of the reasons why fewer Catholics attend Masses (in the U.S., anyway). More importantly, what the chart attempts to do is demonstrate that there isnât just âoneâ reason why Masses are less-attended in the U.S. This is a complex problem with many different angles.
Yes, I agree with your post. Church attendance is definately down in our Protestant brothers and sisters Churches not just at the Catholic Church. A few of my neighbors who are Protestant donât go to church because sunday is the day they sleep in because they work m-f and sat get up early to run errands and do chores. Some donât go because their children are grown and feel they donât need to. Sounds like a lot of reasons Catholics give too.Church attendance for all denominations began to fall off in the '60s with the counter-culture phenomenon. The new Evangelical churches started, business like a cross between Amway and a tent revival and used TV to great advantage in gathering large flocks into huge churches for large profits.
This is not a âCatholicâ issue; it is a cultural issue.
I never said it doesnât happen. I will have to do my part. Every time I talk about shepherding my children with the seed of Christ I get this.I donât want to take the thread OT, but I want to point out, with great gentleness, that many many parents, Catholic and Protestant, raise their children well and do everything right to train them up in their faith, only to see their children utterly reject their faith when they grow up.
So very sad, but it happens all the time. There are no guarantees in parenting.