Why do non catholics dislike Mother Mary?

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Well there is a difference between protestants and Catholics. Most, protestants do not believe dead people can pray for them at all.
Catholics don’t either! 😃

But, if you do a word search on biblegateway.com you will see that there are no references to dead people being in heaven.

Rather, the Scriptures are full of verses referring to LIFE–eternal LIFE! 👍
 
For those who think that Mary is not special in Scripture…

she’s called “full of grace”, and the Greek word for this implies something very important, that she is literally filled with God in a way that no one ever has been

she’s called the Ark of the new Covenant (Revelation 11-12)

Jesus does His first miracle because Mary asks Him too

simply from the sound of her voice, John the Baptist is sanctified

she is blessed among women

she is our Mother

she “magnifies” the Lord (makes Him more clear for us to see)

…there’s more… I could go into the OT, as well… I think that when Protestants say that Mary is not shown to be anyone special in the Bible, they’re not interpreting it properly.
 
There are some Non Catholics who have a great dislike for Mother mary. What could be the reason for this? They only quote Holy Bible saying there is no reference to any thing about her. I know someone who says show me on the Holy Bible where she is called Mother for all.

What is her relationship to the Catholics? Is she a Mother to all, if so what is the reference to this?

will appreciate some help on this.

thanks and God Bless
Excuse me! What a crock!

I don’t think anyone dislikes Mary. Even Muslims believe in the virgin birth. Even the Beatles respect Mary!

I can’t go further. I’m apoplectic. Foaming at the mouth even. Going dizzy…about to pass out…

where do you get your ideas from?

Lordy lordy…
 
Hi lfl,
Here’s what I do know: when diagnosed with prostate cancer 4 years ago, I made it a point to read about St. Peragrine, and while I did not pray to him, knowing of how he handled his affliction gave me comfort and courage. To this day I carry his likeness in my wallet. That, to me, brought a renewed understanding of the importance of the saints as examples of faith for us to emulate.
Was this a wordless request for intercession? I don’t know, but it is what it is, and I thank God for it.

Jon
I am quite certain that through God’s Grace, St Peragrine was made known of your situation and he probably laid many prayers before the throne of the Lord for you. 🙂
 
You sound really screwed up to me.

Do you practice artificial birth control?
So you know me. I was very much a former Catholic who converted and now saw the llight, don’t you even try to pretend to know me your hypocrite!
Are you the dumbest person alive? Moron, even I call her blessed
Please let’s be charitable. I’m sure you can have a conversation without the rude, condescending statements. Thanks!
 
People think everything about the Catholic Church must come from the Bible…

Well the Christians were new people, they then shared in Christ’s kingship, prophet, redemption…

We live through Scripture and our Sacred Tradition, that also helps us understand the Word of God the way the Lord intended. The laity was the source responsible for bringing in the devotions to Mary, so our devotion and knowledge of her parallels Scripture…we have names just as there is the name, Holy Trinity, that is not found in Scriptures.
 
Hello…

I’ve enjoyed the conversation up to this point and I would like to add to the discussion.

Most non-Catholics don’t dislike Mary; In fact I’d argue that many admire her. It had to be a huge burden to realize that her son was to be the fulfillment of the ancient prophesy passed down generations – spanning hundreds of years – to Israelites like her; only to then be forced to watch as her son – the child she birthed 33 years ago – is tortured and impaled until dead.

But what non-Catholics are angry about is there seemed to be an assumption in Catholicism that Salvation – whether day-to-day or eternal – is found through prayer to Mary and the saints, when the whole point to the Savior’s life and death was to reestablish the direct connection back to our heavenly Father.

We had a direct connection in the beginning but we were soon cut off because of the first lie. What lie?

[Gen 3:1] …Then the serpent said to the woman, ‘You will NOT surely die.

So I swear to tell the truth…so help me God.
  • No one who dies receives eternal life and goes to heaven…
  • No one who dies goes to a place called purgatory…
  • No one who dies goes to hell…
All who die – good or bad – simply “sleep” in death until they are “awaken” upon hearing the voice of the Savior at the end of days. Only then, will some receive eternal life or eternal judgment.

None of us want to imagine not existing – if even for a little while. We fear the darkness so strongly that we accept the Tradition of believing that Mary, saints and our loved ones are still alive in heaven and we pray to them (even though Jesus said that all who are dead are asleep). Unfortunately, many have never read the truth for themselves.

1. There are 3 parts to humans: Body, Spirit & Soul.

*: “And the very God of peace sanctify you wholly; and I pray God your whole spirit and soul and body be preserved blameless unto the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.”

2. The body is a temple made of dust; the spirit is the “breath of life” (or “power of animation”, given by God); and man IS a soul [being].

[Gen 2:7]: “And the Lord God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul.”

We are not bodies that possess souls, nor are we spirits “riding” within bodies. We are souls/beings through the combination of spirit & body. This concept is also reflect in our biology; humans aren’t simply sperm that grows inside an egg as if the egg is a Petri dish, but we are sperm and egg combined, married together to form someone new.

3. Many confuse the following verse…but what’s explained is "without both body and spirit, we cease to be, and the power of life returns to God"

[Ecc 12:7] Then shall the dust [body] return to the earth as it was, and the spirit [power of animation] shall return unto God who gave it.

4. Death is sleep. And in sleep we cease to be.

[JOB 7:21] …For now shall I sleep in the dust; and Thou shalt seek me in the morning, but I shall not be.

[JOB 14:12] So man lies down and does not rise. Till the heavens are no more, they will not awake nor be roused from their sleep

[PSALM 115:17] The dead do not praise the LORD, nor do any who go down into silence;

[PSALM 146:3] Do not trust in princes, in mortal man, in whom there is no salvation. 4 His spirit departs, he returns to the earth; in that very day his thoughts [his soul/Id/being] perish.

5. We all will be awakened from sleep when the Savior returns, and not a moment sooner.

[JOHN 5:28] Do not marvel at this; for the hour is coming when all who are in the tombs will hear his voice 29 and come forth, those who have done good, to the resurrection of life, and those who have done evil, to the resurrection of judgment.

[DANIEL 12:13] “But you, go your way till the end; for you shall rest [sleep in death], and will arise to your inheritance at the end of the days.”
  • Now this I say, brethren, that flesh and blood cannot inherit the kingdom of God; nor does corruption inherit incorruption. 51 Behold, I tell you a mystery: We shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed — 52 in a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, and the dead will be raised incorruptible, and we shall be changed.
[REVELATION 22:12] “And behold, I am coming quickly, and my reward [eternal life] is with me, to give to every one according to his work.”

The Savior told us how we should pray and gave an example:*

[Matthew 6:9-12] “Our Father, which art in Heaven…”

[John 14:12-13 & 16] “…I go unto my Father. And whatsoever ye shall ask me] in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified…and I will then] pray the Father…”

The point of conversation is towards the Father, and then sealed in the name of the Savior.

The Savior is the only interceder. Not the saints…and not his mother. His instructions were clear.

There is only One who demands all prayer and worship; no substitutes; no proxies.

Commandment #2

[Exodus 20:4-5] Thou shalt not make unto thee any graven image, or likeness of any thing that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth. 5 and] Thou shalt not bow down thyself for prayer or worship] to them, nor serve them: for the Lord thy God am a Jealous God…

But unfortunately this specific commandment is not taught in the Catholic Tradition (I went to Catholic School all my life).

Many are angry at those who’d forsake the Son’s instructions about prayer, for Tradition, and “thus have ye made the commandment of God of none effect by your tradition [Jesus says to the religious leaders of his day - Matthew 15:6]”.*
 
There are some Non Catholics who have a great dislike for Mother mary. What could be the reason for this? They only quote Holy Bible saying there is no reference to any thing about her. I know someone who says show me on the Holy Bible where she is called Mother for all.

What is her relationship to the Catholics? Is she a Mother to all, if so what is the reference to this?

will appreciate some help on this.

thanks and God Bless
hi wolverine. i dont think its a matter of protestants disliking Mary. its more that they do not understand her role in the history of the Church. i believe it is a gift of God to understand who and what she is. if you look at the ark of the covenant, you will see in so many ways, it is a proto type of Mary. even in the book of revelation she is tied in with it. do not believe its overt hostility on their part. just ignorance. peace.
 
hi wolverine. i dont think its a matter of protestants disliking Mary. its more that they do not understand her role in the history of the Church. i believe it is a gift of God to understand who and what she is. if you look at the ark of the covenant, you will see in so many ways, it is a proto type of Mary. even in the book of revelation she is tied in with it. do not believe its overt hostility on their part. just ignorance. peace.
From your perspective that would be a fair statement.👍

From my perspective a fair statement would perhaps be that Catholics are a tad “over-the-top” in respect to Mary.

And then from these starting points you might be able to have a fair discussion on the matter (which to be honest doesn’t interest me all that much).

But “dislike Mother Mary” and “worship Mary” are both not fair statements to make.
 
But “dislike Mother Mary” and “worship Mary” are both not fair statements to make.
I entirely agree.

But, this comment is a frequent one made by Catholics. And I’m always a bit dismayed when Catholics defend and support it - as has mostly been the case here.

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There are some Non Catholics who have a great dislike for Mother mary. What could be the reason for this? They only quote Holy Bible saying there is no reference to any thing about her. I know someone who says show me on the Holy Bible where she is called Mother for all.

What is her relationship to the Catholics? Is she a Mother to all, if so what is the reference to this?

will appreciate some help on this.

thanks and God Bless
I know of no one who “dislikes” Mary the mother of Jesus…I think it’s the Catholic understanding of Mary and their at times over zealous devotion to her that most non-Catholics have issue with.

Just becasue non-Catholics do not show 'Catholic devotion" to Mary doesn’t mean she is disliked…nor does it mean they are disrespectful toward her memory or being.

For most Protestants, Jesus is the focus of devotion…He is all and in all…most Protestants don’t contemplate Mary too much…she is not “ignored”…she is “creature” and Protestant focus is on Creator God revealed in Jesus of Nazareth…for many Protestants there is no need for devotion to Mary…since Mary would point us to her Son as the object of our devotion anyways…we honor her by focusing upon her Son…when most Protestants think of Mary…they remember her and honor her BY focusing on her Son.

Catholic “characterization” of Protestants not honoring Mary and disrepecting her is a dishonor to her in and of itself…IMO…I can’t conceive of her accusing anyone of not honoring her IF their devotion is toward her Son to the exclusion of all other “creatures”.
 
There are some Non Catholics who have a great dislike for Mother mary. What could be the reason for this? They only quote Holy Bible saying there is no reference to any thing about her. I know someone who says show me on the Holy Bible where she is called Mother for all.

What is her relationship to the Catholics? Is she a Mother to all, if so what is the reference to this?

will appreciate some help on this.

thanks and God Bless
Dear wwolverine.

Growing up among protestants of all kinds, I can say I have never met anyone who disliked the Virgin Mary. They also recognize that she has a unique privilege among women and among creatures in generel.
What I did encounter is a strong suspicion among many Christians - both catholics and non-catholics - who believe that there is too much or a wrong kind of focus on Mary among traditional Christians.
I recently read a book written by a former Muslim. He said that the traditional church in Egypt is visible but Marian devotion is a huge stumblingblock to the Muslims because they see people kneeling infront of statues of Mary in the churches, and hear them invoke her with titles and words that should only be used when prasing God. I tend to agree with this former Muslim, now Evangelical.
Having heard quite a few prayers that made me and other Catholics shocked, I will say that what could have remained what it started out like, namely a smooth and unproblematic marian devotion for me - I have no problem with the Rosary at all - has become a very problematic because I really do feel scandalised when I hear such prayers as the Agathist, Hail Holy Queen and other prayers and psalms.

For that reason I no longer tell my Evangelical friends that they are totally wrong to be jealous for God… I think they have a point and we ought to listen. Oftentimes I see processions with statues of Mary and I think… I honestly can’t imagine that the Virgin Mary likes to be carried around on shoulders and covered with gold.

Thats just my personal sense of it but I know that I am not alone with this experience.

Peace be with you
 
GraceDK hits the point nicely. Neither I nor any Protestant I’ve ever known dislikes Mother Mary, unless by “dislike” one means anything less than a stereotypically Catholic devotion to her, which is setting the bar perversely high. By that standard, I “dislike” anyone who isn’t God!

Still, Protestants who love and honor Mary look on the Catholic side and see what appears to them a case of devotion run floridly amuck, if not into outright apostasy. Rightly or wrongly, the Catholic example makes them feel that an appropriate, ordinate love for the Virgin can easily run off the rails in extremely soul-damaging ways; as a result, their affection is often constrained and qualified in a way they wish it wasn’t, but suspect it might need to be.
 
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