Joey Warren, I applaud your excellent post and understanding. It is one of the best I have ever read, however:
Really: to “worship” Mary would require that the intellect makes a firm decision to believe that Mary is Divine or that she created the world. Even the most uneducated catholic, I believe, does not make that kind of intellectual decision. Thus, Mary cannot be worshipped unless a person claims, with full intellect, that she is divine. Case closed.
It all boils down to what you have said here. And it would require knowing the heart and mind of the individual Catholic. For a protestant, prayer is talking to unseen spiritual beings and should be reserved for God alone (have no other Gods before me). Because prots are usually sola scriptura, they will emphasise the “one mediator between God and man” and that Jesus constantly prays for us to the Father, from Scripture. So to move from that to praying for intercession via Mary or anyone else seems
genuinely blasphemous, at least at first. As a cradle Catholic, you just accept it because it has always been there without questioning, which is the easier path. Same thing with prayers to our Guardian Angels, or Prayer to Archangel Michael.
As for the RCC having a lot of explaining to do, indeed She does if she wishes to be understood by other denominations. I hope to be involved in this, having seen both sides, and pray that I am not reaching above my station in life to :engage in theo dialogue and fraternal knowledge" as the CCC says.
A simple instance. In the Hail Mary, “Mother of God” sounds at first like Mary is mother of the Godhead, or God the Father, because that is what prots first think of when they think of God. So it requires an explanation: Mary is the mother of Jesus, correct? Jesus is God, correct? You can’t separate Jesus into parts, He is a person, fully human and fully divine, correct? Therefore Mary, because she was mother of Jesus, was mother of God. Catholic don’t believe that Mary is Mother of God the Father. But at first that’s what “Mother of God” seems to mean, to prots. Further, it would be possible I believe to be Catholic and never say a Hail Mary (although I do).
Once over “the hurdle” you start praying it and it’s a beautiful prayer, like a diamond, and each time I pray it there is some new beauty to see. I find it comforting that Our Mother will be praying for me in the hour I die, and hope for a comfortable death.
