In life, we start out as young people who are constantly battling between good and evil, selfishness and giving, self vs others. I think women admire confident men who know what they want. The problem with the confident bad boys is that these men want what generally boils down to various forms of selfishness. Why? Because it’s easy and lazy to want to please the Self. Easy decision. No confusion. Easy execution of the plan. It involves less work. Just seek good times and pleasure. Simple. No confusing morality to interfere or inhibit.
Then, when the bad boy is done with them, he abandons them because their entertainment value has expired. She sought security in his confidence, but ended up getting the opposite result. In some ways, she has been chopped down a notch. The shallowness of liberal society turns more women into sex-and-run victims, and people can’t wait to vote for more, despite the anger, confusion, and refusal to acknowledge what caused the problem in the first place.
We need to be gutsy, edgy, deep, unafraid to stand up for what we believe, passionate, and full of heart, soul, and romanticism in a truly giving way, like romantic warriors. But knowing these things, and having the stones to show it, is counter to the prevailing messages of the unelected liberal culture which seeks weak-minded puppets who will just go along with them without questioning or challenging them. You could almost do the opposite of the culture and probably be better off.
