We pray for conversion of sinners, but doesn’t it depend on their free will?
One thing that new converts, and even life-long Catholics, often have trouble coming to terms with is that prayer isn’t so much about the other person. Yes, we are praying for others because we hope that our prayers will be answered, but the primary purpose of prayer is to align
our wills with God. The more we pray, the more we pray well, the more our wills accept God’s will, rather than trying to impose our own. When I pray for the healing of my family, I am more changed by that prayer than the other (generally speaking, of course. There are always exceptions, such as with the spontaneous healing of illness). We pray because
we want to move closer to God, and one of the ways we do that is by loving our neighbors more, which is accomplished by praying for them.
That’s not to say that God doesn’t account for our prayers. He has known them from all eternity, and I firmly believe He has accounted for every last prayer that has been / is being / will be uttered in the whole of human history. If I pray for rain, I believe that God has always known that prayer, and His response has been factored into the development of the universe since the Big Bang. As I said in an earlier post, this is something that causes people a lot of trouble. We’re not really going to be able to understand God’s omniscience this side of Heaven because our entire understanding is limited by the concepts of time and linearity.
You are correct though that even though we may pray for a person it doesn’t guarantee that their Will will allow that prayer to be answered. I may pray for my friend to come back to the faith, but that doesn’t mean he will, that’s up to him. We don’t really understand the “economy of prayer,” we aren’t aware of the precise mechanisms by which it operates. What we can surmise is that when we pray for someone we are asking God to increase the graces they are given in the hopes that those graces will lead them to our Lord. God is already granting everyone
sufficient grace (enough to come to know Him and be saved.), so our prayers are asking for “more than enough” grace for them. Still, if they won’t accept
enough grace, there’s no guarantee they’ll accept
more than enough.
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