But we are talking about the rights of healthcare. Many with jobs still cannot afford healthcare. I work full time at a Catholic school and to provide my 2 children with health care costs me $1000 a month out of pocket. Believe me, I do not make enough money to afford that.

I have an honest question for you: is this an employer-provided health care plan that you’re accepting? Have you explored other options?
I ask, because I have found that a lot of people seem to overlook many options and seem to not even consider the many plans out there that are actually affordable, favoring instead those plans that have very low deductibles and copays for doctor’s visits and prescription drugs, seemingly without considering just how much they’re paying for such coverage.
For example, a quick search on
ehealthinsurance.com in my zip code (Independence, MO, just outside Kansas City, MO) reveals that a family of 2 (parents who are 45 years old, 1 child at 10yo, one 15yo) can get coverage for as little as $138/mo. Yes, that’s high-deductible; but if you’re saving $800 a month (since your alternative is $1000/mo, apparently), you can pay for a whol lot of other health care costs out of pocket! ($9600 saved/year).
If you MUST have a plan that has a low deductible ($2500, 20% coinsurance to an out-of-pocket annual max of $4500), and low copays (only $15!), that plan is $554/mo. I would consider those terms a “cadillac plan,” frankly. You’re now talking $5,000 a year to save for additional costs and to cover your deductible, should you ever need it.
In my experience, many otherwise-responsible people that I know simply take what is handed to them and don’t explore their options. We need to alter our expectations. If you won’t want to be troubled by much of a bill and go to a doctor whenever and for whatever you want, yes, you’re going to pay a LOT for that privilege. If you’re more realistic and only pay for the emergency coverage that you need, you can save a LOT of money and afford to pay for the majority of services out of pocket, while saving up a cushion quickly that can cover out of pocket maximums if you’re hit with an incident in a given year.
I have to buy my own insurance for my family; I have no employer coverage. I’d love for it to cost less, but frankly, the coverage we’re purchasing independently (no employer assistance) only costs as much as a modest car payment (1 car). Add the cost of car insurance and maintenance costs, and we’re talking about health insurance AND average out-of-pocket expenses that cost less than owning a car. And no, our car isn’t extravagant (2005 Hyundai Santa Fe).
Is there really something obscenely wrong with our health insurance costs if caring for our bodies costs less than owning our cars? Or is it our perspectives and priorities as Americans that is out of whack, functionally valuing our material things more than ourselves, and thus complaining when it costs more to pay for ourselves than to pay for our luxuries?