There is soooooo much wrong with this that my response would be many times longer just to correct it. Brother/Sister, I say this with as much love and charity as a man can muster. Please Please Please, go to your Parish Priest and ask him to explain what is wrong with your statement. I am a cradle Catholic and was not served well in terms of my formative education in the Church, however, I have taken the time and effort to understand the teachings of the Catholic Church. Your explanations are precisely why other Christian faiths are able to sway some Catholics away from the Church. If you truly try to learn the faith properly you will answer your own questions. From my perspective and of some theologians I have researched, if a Catholic does not believe in the True Presence of Christ in the Eucharist, he/she is not Catholic at all. That is the foundation of the faith believed by all of the Church fathers all the way back to the Apostles and Christ Himself. Please learn your faith, you are missing so much.
You are right on target with your response.
I am the Lay Director of RCIA in our parish, and several years ago, we had a gentleman that came from a fundamentalist background who struggled with Real Presence in the Eucharist.
I will give the man credit. He tried and tried, and prayed so hard for an understanding. Unfortunately, it was something he couldn’t understand or believe.
On Good Friday, he came to me and told me that he was dropping out of RCIA. Remember, he was to join the church the next day on Holy Saturday. He told me (and I will never forget it), “I can lie to you, and I can lie to the priest, but I will NOT lie to God.”
As hard as it was to hear, I respected his decision. It wasn’t an easy one for him to reach, and I truly believe he tried.
Long story short, he left the class, and did not join the Church. However, the seeds were planted. It wasn’t 2 years later, and he was back. He GOT it. . He joined the church, has a very strong faith, and great devotion to the Eucharist. He is even discerning the priesthood!
He later told me that while the classes did help him in understanding, it was his private talks with a priest, and time in front of the Blessed Sacrament that really helped to open his eyes and his heart.