B
Bill_7154
Guest
FaithIn TheSon,
I needed to snip part of your post (and part of my original reply to make it fit.
Anyway, I’m not clear on what our ‘different perspectives’ are on the homeless. I feel sorry for them and beleive that prior circumstances in their life lead them to become homeless. I don’t think anyone chooses it or anyone can snap themselves out of it. But I do believe that alcohol and drug abuse is a major issue with the homeless. Again, I’m not surprised. Who wants to be homeless? Am I surprised people drink as a means of coping with their terrible circumstances? Not in the least.
But that house i managed in the ghetto:. They used a different philosophy before I started working there. That was “homeless people’s problem is that they don’t have a home, so give them one and all will be OK”. They did that and someone who was drunk wound up putting a potato in tin foil or something in the microwave for 2 hours, left the house. Fire, spinklers went off, the first floor filled with sooo much water, that it collapsed.
After that they decided to make the program drug and alcohol free. I heard gunfire every weekend night for years. I saw people shooting, getting beaten with crowbars, 2by4’s, even saw a guy chase down a woman with a sword.
And I hear that Detroit is rife with corruption like no other city. That is a shame. But I’m not sure how far off we are from one another on different issues. I would like to see all cheating by politicians ended, all bribes, scams, insider trading, war profiteering come to an end.
Where we may differ is that I believe that using a teach a man to fish method is superior to a feed a man a fish method. Especially since there is multi generational welfare. I think that comes from the family more than from ‘lack of education’ as if your parents don’t prioritize your schoolwork it doesn’t matter how good your school is. If your parents are too preoccupied with their own problems or issues to pay attention to yours, it doesn’t matter how bad your school is. Your going to gravitate toward gangs most likely unless you have other family that is stable and loving and kind and that you were close to from an early age to continue to guide you. By the time an inner city kid is like 12, the path of his life is kind of laid out for him. With 2 loving parents living in the same home, where they sit down with him daily and help him with his homework and provide strong moral guidance and good discipline, etc that boy has a good chance of making it out of the ghetto.
If a 12 yo comes from a single parent home, with multiple males coming and going, if the mom uses drugs, if the child is emotionally neglected (or worse) he is going to join a gang, sell drugs… you know the story.
When it comes to politicians I don’t trust any of them. Show me one that gives away 1/2 of their total wealth (not income for the yr subject to fed income taxes) until they have no more than 5 million dollars and I will pay serious attention to what that politician has to say and take him serious when he claims he wants to help a segment of society.
So where do you see that we differ? I’m curious?
I needed to snip part of your post (and part of my original reply to make it fit.
Did you get the sense from my post that I was judging those on entitlement programs? I thought I made it quite clear that I see any anger towards any of them as misdirected. And I’m terribly sad to hear about your friend. I’ve heard about Detroit and think it’s worse than Boston is now, but back in the 80’s Boston was rough. I was the live in manager of a 3/4 way house in the ghetto. I am white. The only white face you saw in that area, day or night, except for the police. And i grew up in the suburbs so didn’t even have a ‘street’ education. I got a crash course at the homeless shelters I stayed in though.I wish I could as I am in Michigan I can not. I wish I could take you to some in Detroit though. I have only been outside of them but I used to encounter homeless on a daily basis. Some of them very smart obviously just left behind. Maybe that is part of where our different perspectives come from I suspected that because I have read your posts which I normally enjoy and I was already aware of most of what you just said.
Here politicians steal money like every1 is blind and every once in a while throw up a scapegoat for good measure. I tend to focus more on that.
Our poor people are completely screwed over I have nothing but sympathy.
To give you a little insight on my perspective if you haven’t already read my other post: My best friend was killed by a 15 year old and his mom. He saw the 15 year old was about to get jumped, told the boys about to get jumped that he had warrants and to not do it (this was just to front them off, he really just didn’t want the kid to get jumped). They punched the boy one time. He told his mom. His mom gave him a gun and drove him to shoot into a crowd. He missed his targets and hit the only person I’ve ever been able to trust in the head. This also happens to be the same one that stopped him from getting jumped. The rest is in this article wchbnewsdetroit.com/3491/mom-helped-son-get-to-gun-worthy-says/ .
So I do not judge them for their weakness. In the same way if you were too weak to climb out of your hole I would not have judged you. I have been plenty weak myself almost all of the time. We all have been.
Anyway, I’m not clear on what our ‘different perspectives’ are on the homeless. I feel sorry for them and beleive that prior circumstances in their life lead them to become homeless. I don’t think anyone chooses it or anyone can snap themselves out of it. But I do believe that alcohol and drug abuse is a major issue with the homeless. Again, I’m not surprised. Who wants to be homeless? Am I surprised people drink as a means of coping with their terrible circumstances? Not in the least.
But that house i managed in the ghetto:. They used a different philosophy before I started working there. That was “homeless people’s problem is that they don’t have a home, so give them one and all will be OK”. They did that and someone who was drunk wound up putting a potato in tin foil or something in the microwave for 2 hours, left the house. Fire, spinklers went off, the first floor filled with sooo much water, that it collapsed.
After that they decided to make the program drug and alcohol free. I heard gunfire every weekend night for years. I saw people shooting, getting beaten with crowbars, 2by4’s, even saw a guy chase down a woman with a sword.
And I hear that Detroit is rife with corruption like no other city. That is a shame. But I’m not sure how far off we are from one another on different issues. I would like to see all cheating by politicians ended, all bribes, scams, insider trading, war profiteering come to an end.
Where we may differ is that I believe that using a teach a man to fish method is superior to a feed a man a fish method. Especially since there is multi generational welfare. I think that comes from the family more than from ‘lack of education’ as if your parents don’t prioritize your schoolwork it doesn’t matter how good your school is. If your parents are too preoccupied with their own problems or issues to pay attention to yours, it doesn’t matter how bad your school is. Your going to gravitate toward gangs most likely unless you have other family that is stable and loving and kind and that you were close to from an early age to continue to guide you. By the time an inner city kid is like 12, the path of his life is kind of laid out for him. With 2 loving parents living in the same home, where they sit down with him daily and help him with his homework and provide strong moral guidance and good discipline, etc that boy has a good chance of making it out of the ghetto.
If a 12 yo comes from a single parent home, with multiple males coming and going, if the mom uses drugs, if the child is emotionally neglected (or worse) he is going to join a gang, sell drugs… you know the story.
When it comes to politicians I don’t trust any of them. Show me one that gives away 1/2 of their total wealth (not income for the yr subject to fed income taxes) until they have no more than 5 million dollars and I will pay serious attention to what that politician has to say and take him serious when he claims he wants to help a segment of society.
So where do you see that we differ? I’m curious?
