Cat:
i have been to many protestant services that even use the same missal that is sitting in a catholic pew.
i went through a period of being lost. left the catholic church for a bit. i attended several services. lutherans, methodists, united church of christ, all had the same service as catholics. i also attended a baptist and an evangelical service. true these were nothing like a catholic service.
i was taught that the novus ordo mass was designed to make protestants feel welcome. in doing so, it made many catholics feel unwelcome. it made them feel like they were participating in something sinister. this caused a split, possibly costing many catholic souls.
before vatican II churches were built decidedly catholic. they had communion rails, saints statues, a choir loft, no one was allowed up at the altar but the priest and servers because laity had their place in witnessing, consecrated wine was not distributed because it was thought to be foolish to risk spilling Christ on the floor when the Holy Eucharist is enough, you could attend a catholic mass anywhere in the world and know what was going on because we had a unified language a unified mass, confession before every mass, beautiful chanting, the smell of incense… so much lost. this is just as small portion… the only thing more sad than these things lost in every mass is that a lot of catholics dont want them back. this baffles and saddens me.
i am truly happy for you. that you have a mass that makes you whole and you feel by attending you made God happy worshiping like a catholic. i really, really, am. but i come from a family that tells me how things used to be. how so much more effort went into catholic symbolisms and catholic worship. now i have the tridentine mass, and it is truly a smack in the face of the reality of what was sacrificed and lost.
so yes i speak of the novus ordo. it did hurt the unity of the catholic church and with its constant drastic changes the novus ordo, after 50 years, is still to this day dividing catholics.