Why don’t we get involved?
Well, first of all I wouldn’t call you a trad if you are a EMHC. Secondly, I believe that EMHC should be outlawed unless there is a certain ratio of say 1000 or more people per priest in a parish. And I think only men should be EMHC.
Thirdly, I have tried to get involved. I tried to become the leader of my youth group because the leader was so liberal and spewing such heresies that I couldn’t stand it. I wasn’t allowed. I was too young(18). I left because every time I tried to introduce something good, they took and and turned it into something bad. Such as the time I said that we should not say as our grace before meals “Jesus is a Dude, Thank you Dude for our Food.” But instead say the traditional grace. So the leader say if anyone else has another one they would like to introduce that would be good. She doesn’t say that it was a mistake to say the dude grace, she doesn’t say that the traditional one is better.
Then the time that she put on a skit saying that it was better to be happy than to go to mass on Sunday. I corrected her and she said sorry, but did not bring it up to the group. I introduced the scapular. Instead of having a priest come and offer to enroll the other kids, she lit candles and said a mushy prayer and then had everyone put a scapular on.
I’m sorry, but I couldn’t stand there and watch it anymore. I couldn’t have everything that I tried to do turn into something bad.
Every Sunday, the music is protestant. My parents write letters with citations from authoritative documents, but the response is always rude and negative. We would get involved in the choir except none of us has a voice that you would want to hear, and we don’t know how to read or play music. But that doesn’t mean we don’t know good Catholic music.
The tabernacle is on the side in the Church. We can’t go into the Church and move it, so we write letters to the priest again citing the authoritative documents.
When a priest at our old parish refused to let my brother receive his first Holy Communion on the tongue (which is the preferred and ordinary way) and because the priest was using a crystal chalice which is forbidden, we wrote the bishop who said he would look into it. The bishop did nothing. A year latter that priest was publicly exposed for having stolen hundreds of thousands of dollars. And the principal of the school attached to that church, my father wrote a letter to the bishop about him. A year latter he was also exposed publicly in a scandal.
When we lived in Denver, we attended a mass near our house, on Easter Sunday. The priest wore bunny ears and hopped around the entire mass. We left attended another mass over half an hour away from our house and the archbishop received a letter. The bishop of Denver is awesome and he did something immediately. Another Sunday at a different parish, a missionary priest came and gave a sermon about the gospel which was about the miracle of the loaves and fishes. He said that there was no miracle, everyone who was there was just inspired by Christ sharing, so they took out the food in their pockets and shared too.
My father corrected him after mass, and wrote to the bishop and pastor.
Don’t say we aren’t doing things. My parents have six kids and they both have to work. They do the most that they possibly can. And I know that it is the same for many, many other trad families. I am happy that you are involved, but don’t hold yourself up saying that you are better than anyone. We are all out there trying, we each have different circumstances that we have to juggle, don’t point fingers.
Have a wonderful summer.
By the way. I am going to Wyoming Catholic College, so that when I am finished, I will have a degree to back up my words when I face off with choir directors, EMHC, priests, bishops and whoever else is disrespecting Our Lord and The Church! I am happy to do this and am so excited, but it is a great financial burden on my family and it will take four years of my life. Just remember that many people are trying, and most trads are trying the hardest. So don’t put us down, the liberals are already doing a good job of that.