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PennitentMan, I have had endless amounts of troubles with those very same questions (as well as many others).
I’ll share my thoughts on the subject with you. Bear in mind they may not represent strictly Catholic views. At this stage, I’m not educated enough to know whether they do or not.
I think Traditional Ang has provided the relevant quotes for this issue. This life is a test for each of us. It is the prelude to the everlasting life in paradise promised us. But first, we must earn it. And to do so, we must do our best abide by all of Jesus’ teachings, for He is the Way, the Truth and the Light.
Part of this is to willingly bear the crosses God has given us. It does seem unfair that some people, such as your son, must bear crosses of physical or mental disability. I’d say it would be equally unfair that people such as yourself are asked to bear the cross of having a son with such a condition? That cross itself is neither a mental or physical disability, but it is a significant cross, all the same.
Perhaps you can see where I’m going now? Perhaps each of us have equally significant crosses to bear, it’s just that they take on different forms. Some of those forms may be extremely difficult to see or comprehend, but they are still present.
Also, consider this. With disability, with suffering, with hardship, we are more easily entered into God’s grace. Such things humble us, and I’d say, in humility God takes great joy. It would be much, much more difficult for a man who has never been through any form of hardship to enter God’s grace. For such a man would place a higher value on the life he currently leads, and find it so much harder to relinquish his material pleasures, humble himself and follow Jesus. Perhaps that in itself is a cross to bear? The biggest thing to lose here is your soul, and eternal happiness with God.
This might be a touchy subject. I apologise if this offends or upsets you in any way and I respect that this may not be the most tactful thing to say. But, perhaps in a way, such disabilities are a gift from God? For they make it easier to follow Jesus?
They are simply my thoughts on the subject.
I’ll share my thoughts on the subject with you. Bear in mind they may not represent strictly Catholic views. At this stage, I’m not educated enough to know whether they do or not.
I think Traditional Ang has provided the relevant quotes for this issue. This life is a test for each of us. It is the prelude to the everlasting life in paradise promised us. But first, we must earn it. And to do so, we must do our best abide by all of Jesus’ teachings, for He is the Way, the Truth and the Light.
Part of this is to willingly bear the crosses God has given us. It does seem unfair that some people, such as your son, must bear crosses of physical or mental disability. I’d say it would be equally unfair that people such as yourself are asked to bear the cross of having a son with such a condition? That cross itself is neither a mental or physical disability, but it is a significant cross, all the same.
Perhaps you can see where I’m going now? Perhaps each of us have equally significant crosses to bear, it’s just that they take on different forms. Some of those forms may be extremely difficult to see or comprehend, but they are still present.
Also, consider this. With disability, with suffering, with hardship, we are more easily entered into God’s grace. Such things humble us, and I’d say, in humility God takes great joy. It would be much, much more difficult for a man who has never been through any form of hardship to enter God’s grace. For such a man would place a higher value on the life he currently leads, and find it so much harder to relinquish his material pleasures, humble himself and follow Jesus. Perhaps that in itself is a cross to bear? The biggest thing to lose here is your soul, and eternal happiness with God.
This might be a touchy subject. I apologise if this offends or upsets you in any way and I respect that this may not be the most tactful thing to say. But, perhaps in a way, such disabilities are a gift from God? For they make it easier to follow Jesus?
They are simply my thoughts on the subject.